Cant keep erection hard

Kisstafer1 · 2017-07-26T23:05:51+00:00

Hey kid, I had the same problem when I lost my virginity at 19.

I was dating this hot girl, and I couldn't get hard for an entire month of trying to fuck every weekend.

I went to the doctor for erectile dyfunction, and he sat me down and said: "Listen kid, it's in your head."

Do you ever get random boners? Wake up with a stiffy? hard while watching porn/ jerking off? Because if so, it's in your head.

Cut out the porn and masturbation just in case it helps by making you so horny that even your nerves can't stop you.

Just try to not worry about it. This girl wants you bro. Eventually you'll be so over the dissappointment and embarassment, that you will be desensitized to the nerves, and it will randomly just get hard and you will feel like you found a pot-o-gold at the end of the rainbow.

Red_FiveStandingBy · 2017-07-26T22:23:43+00:00

Quit watching porn

DiggerClam · 2017-07-26T23:40:44+00:00

100% it's porn enduced erectile dysfunction.

https://youtu.be/EHHyt6z0osA

Youngins are most fucked up by it because they were born into high speed internet.

nisocaniso · 2017-07-26T22:33:58+00:00

porn, masturbation, cut both of these. start lifting. i went from lasting minutes to being able to control when to cum and getting ridiculous hard ons.

KidWonder101 · 2017-07-26T22:27:09+00:00

Are you nervous? It could be performance anxiety. In that case, I'd recommend to stop watching porn and maybe nibble on a viagra when the moment comes (no pun intended).

wtg2989 · 2017-07-27T04:05:17+00:00

Do you touch her a lot? Stroke her between the legs, eat her out? Best way to get rock solid is forget about your dick and explore her body.

asktrpanon · 2017-07-27T01:22:29+00:00

Start lifting (testosterone boost and confidence), take L Arginine and/or horny goat weed (improves blood flow), cut out porn and all synthetic sexual stimuli entirely (messes with your mental health sexually and in other ways), quit tobacco if you use it (restricts arteries and blood flow), and get 8+ hours of sleep per night (just good for your body processes). There's a good post with remedies for this in the main sub.

vandaalen · 2017-07-26T23:02:16+00:00

Get the necessary bloodwork done to test your testosterone levels.

[deleted] · 2017-07-27T00:08:34+00:00

If you find out that it's not porn then get your hormones checked out. Especially your testosterone

wracky272 · 2017-07-27T03:36:18+00:00

It happens. Sounds like it's not physiological and is basically performance anxiety. Our culture puts such a high value on sexual performance that it's easy to make it more complicated and higher pressure than it needs to be-- especially when you're young.

Foreplay > Oral Sex > Fucking helps transition. If she blows you halfway to completion it's a bit less likely you'll lose it. Might not be perfect at first, but gradually you'll build confidence/be more relaxed and it will go away.

I've been where you're at-- and it's difficult. I started to feel like less of man. But it was all in my head and it did go away. Now it's not even on my mind.

max_peenor · 2017-07-27T05:39:05+00:00

Agreeing with below, get T checked.

But moar details needed. Age? Any health issues? Blood pressure normal? Any mental issues? (Dude, not a judgement, but be honest.). High/low energy person? Penis outside the average range? The target tang is attractive or you are just trying to score?

DeathToTheZog · 2017-07-27T12:37:12+00:00

Pressure. It kills hardons. Now listen. Go buy bunch of condoms, try them on and find best ones. Buy some ky lube. You want to nake entry quicker the better right? Focus on less foreplay. Now I have some advanced tips but the shit is a double edged sword.

[deleted] · 2017-07-28T08:20:15+00:00

Quit porn, bro. It causes erectile dysfunction.

JSizzl3 · 2017-07-26T22:56:28+00:00

Get a prescription, quit jacking off so much, or go in raw (I dare you).

Peter_B_Long · 2017-07-26T23:45:17+00:00

No Porn, No Masturbation (healthy masturbation once a week), do kegels. If you are on medication or anti-inflammatorys that may be halting you as well.

alp100 · 2017-07-27T00:52:44+00:00

First of all don't panic. It's not end of the world neither end of your fuck journey.

Last of all, as everyone suggested stop jerking off you dumbass. Go clean for at least 3-5 months without any sort of orgasm. Then you can try sex, but never masturbation. Go join r/nofap unless you are aware.

Title	Cant keep erection hard
Author	tryingtobechad
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Date	July 26, 2017 10:08 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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