Want to get accused of Sexual assault? Have sex with this woman.

Lethn · 2016-01-08T13:05:05+00:00

"I didn’t know what was going to happen with the police. I didn’t trust that I would get justice. I had 20 000 followers on Instagram at that time and I knew that I had a community that would support me."

More and more women are doing this and it is total bullshit, I can't understand how women wonder why they're still single when this kind of thing is going on constantly. Yeah, I'm giving benefit of the doubt as with all these cases but women like her are doing themselves absolutely no favours.

They're all about destroying a man's reputation and nothing more.

Leinadro · 2016-01-08T13:20:34+00:00

After reading whats available so far this is basically a case of "he said she said" so far.

I have yet to read a single reason why we as outsiders should take her word over his.

Hell with the way she's going about it it almost sounds like she is trying to use her social media presence to preemptively sway public opinion to her side.

How exactly is this different from the supposed ways men with power and influence (which according to feminist theory is a given if you're male) use that power and influence to sway public opinion against their victims?

tramareddit111 · 2016-01-08T14:56:17+00:00

Surely, a woman who assumes all men are rapists should have assumed this supposed rapist was a rapist and not kiss him or go to his hotel room or take shower with him, but that would make too much sense.

unpicked-username · 2016-01-09T09:49:41+00:00

My thought is she'll say

"I was only here for a week and was already raped, look how bad the rape crisis is"

junoguten · 2016-01-09T10:35:11+00:00

Wish we'd get to know the names of most of the people who do this. Not to take revenge on them, but if say my friend was dating someone who had done it I'd want the ability to warn him before his life would be ruined too.

JebberJabber · 2016-01-09T14:01:56+00:00

She had kissed him previously and may have been still interested for the future, but she turned him down because he seemed drunk, saying that she had found someone else.

[Edit: This was a cheap hostel, it was likely a communal shower room which would normally have men's and women's hours in the evening. This happened during the day]. I can't see how having a shower with him makes a difference. I've showered, shared rooms with, and slept in the same bed with attractive women without raping them. Sometimes while drunk. None of those things necessarily imply sex, and they sure as hell do not invite rape.

Let's imagine they were planning to have sex straight after having a shower together. Would that make it OK for her to have a shower with him?
Or would it still be unwise, because he might rape her in the shower?

Posting naked pictures does not make her a loon.
People who have been raped often cover up more than normal. Others start to dress in more sexy styles. Others find that nonsexual nakedness helps them to feel ownership of their body. I imagine she is making the point that women's bodies are not just for sex.

Because I volunteer in suicide support I have read a ton of rape stories. I read her page and everything looks perfectly consistent. Of course you can never quite trust people who have a large public following, they can be motivated to make things up. She looks genuine as far as I can tell though.

ajax_on_rye · 2016-01-08T22:16:31+00:00

How can I be voted down for suggesting a sauce for the goose arrangement? Weird!

ajax_on_rye · 2016-01-08T19:03:52+00:00

There's an argument for a 'do not sleep with this rape accuser' web site, so men know who to avoid. There is seldom legal redress against for false rape accusers, so some sort of shaming social media seems appropriate.

It seems making false accusations toxic should be the job of the law enforcement agencies. But making the number 1 search result in Google a false rape claim would be a good start.

Of course, if the accuser was raped by the guy, she shouldn't be on there. That's right and proper.

Title	Want to get accused of Sexual assault? Have sex with this woman.
Author	booyah2
Upvotes	11
Comments	25
Date	January 8, 2016 1:00 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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