The anti-catcaller who misses being cat-called is at it again. This time it's "Don't worry about what might happen, just get married!!1!"

mochacola · 2015-07-26T16:39:11+00:00

"Don't worry about what might happen, just get married!"

Yeah, easy for women to say.

SupremeAuthority · 2015-07-26T18:28:25+00:00

notnotnotfred · 2015-07-26T19:35:32+00:00

why do we keep linking that jerk's dribble? We know that what Jess Valent* writes is going to be incoherent, hateful, sarcastic, antimale click-bait.

nachtliche · 2015-07-26T20:03:16+00:00

"Marriage is a leap of faith." Yes, for men that is an understatement. A foolhardy leap of faith into the abyss.

TheRedThrowAwayPill · 2015-07-26T18:55:22+00:00

You guys all got that message right?

"DON'T MARRY HER!"

The more seamstress bodies are left in the wake of rad-fem the quicker its demise.

mochacola · 2015-07-26T16:35:36+00:00

Noooooooooooooo! Anyone who listens to her should not be marriage candidates or even add offsprings to the gene pool.

p3ngwin · 2015-07-26T20:39:54+00:00

The problem is that marriage is not an equation to be solved – there’s no formula to get it right.

Tell That to every woman who "plans" her wedding. Tell it to all the bridezilla's who plan every minute detail, statistically, with KNOWLEDGE of every flower, every reserved card on the tables, every RSVP, every bridesmaid's dress, every date and time, every food item and place-setting at the reception.....

not faith in random luck.

Tell that to the industry of "WEDDING PLANNERS" that exists to plan your wedding, because WOMEN want it assured to go according to PLAN.

At the end of the day, we need to be comfortable with the fact that marriage is a leap of faith.

No, it's not faith, any more than it's a leap of "faith" how you choose your friends, or your job, or where to live, what products to buy, what locations to travel, or anything in life. It's insanity to randomly expect life to work out for you.

Who the hell randomly chooses a date regardless of their features and personality, etc? Why do entire dating industries exist to match people based on metrics, where the more data is known, the better the match can be ?

See a dark alley? don't walk down it
see a dodgy looking person walking on the same side of the street? cross to the other side or get off the street at the next turn, etc.
don't like the neighbourhood? don't live there/move/etc
Food looks off/bad ? don't eat it.
don't like your weight/health? start taking measurements and diagnosing stuff, maybe see a nutritionists or even a Doctor.
don't like the school/college/university? choose a better one that suits your needs
don't like people who treat you badly? don't invest in them and find better people you like
don't like the job offered? find a better one.
don't like your abusive spouse ? call the police, leave them, get them prosecuted/jailed.

who in their right mind throws caution to the wind and expects "life" to deal them a winning hand ?

we calculate and process our environment, and everyone in it, as best we can to achieve the outcomes we want. We have standards of living and behaviours we expect from the people we let into our lives.

we certainly don't jump on random buses full of strangers with no known destination and expect to end up in happy land.

There are just some things that are unknowable about marriage, and about your partner, before you tie the knot. And that’s OK.

No it's not OK, we make decisions by knowing "enough" about the important things, so we "win" and get happier. We most certainly do no live our lives by making random choices (effectively not choosing) based on a complete lack of evidence.

No matter how much planning or forethought goes into a relationship, it may work out and it may not.

Yes, that's the point of learning, and making calculated decisions based on KNOWLEDGE. This woman is literally suggesting the scientific method and intelligence itself are less important than...."BLIND FAITH".

this woman is a moron.

chocoboat · 2015-07-27T08:22:51+00:00

A long term relationship is a journey you take together, regardless of whether you're married.

A leap of faith? Well, she's right about that. You're putting your ass on the line in a voluntary leap of faith, hoping you won't be one of the unlucky men who get screwed over horribly in an ugly divorce.

Sorry lady, if you want to encourage more men to get married, you're going to have to find actual reasons in favor of doing it. Shaming, and "who cares, just do it, yolo!" aren't going to get the job done.

Vires-acquirit · 2015-07-27T00:57:23+00:00

My god.. Can you imagine the milquetoast doormat she is married to.

I read somewhere the divorce rate for people born after 1980 is 70%.. Why would I ever agree to odds like this? Why are women so fucking adamant about this shit? I hope the girl I'm seeing now doesn't start with this nonsense.

liuetenantwaffleiron · 2015-07-27T16:09:50+00:00

We call this "hitting the wall. Hard."

RedditorJemi · 2015-07-28T21:09:49+00:00

Well, you heard it from the bitch herself, don't get married. This is why the heterosexual feminazis are 100x worse than the lesbian feminazis. It's really hard for lesbian women to hurt men. Really hard.

Title	The anti-catcaller who misses being cat-called is at it again. This time it's "Don't worry about what might happen, just get married!!1!"
Author	l2ka
Upvotes	55
Comments	31
Date	July 26, 2015 4:31 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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