Kind of a crosspost to /r/raisedbynarcissists. He's home from school this summer. I've met his stepdad... he knows we're dating. Really weird fellow, firefighter, seemed friendly like they all do. There was a scuffle a few nights ago and my boyfriend wound up in a chokehold with trouble breathing. Mom called off stepdad, things were thrown. Mom / stepsister / my BF are all on the same side, but they went for an emergency drive and a friend took him in right away. He's not hurt and in good spirits. Stepdad is claiming broken ribs but that's impossible because my BF was in a chokehold/headlock. Mom and sister (not the guys biological daughter either) don't seem to be in immediate danger.

Anyways... if you guys have any advice, I could really use it right now. Thank you very much.