I didn't make a move when I could have, now what?

jb_trp · 2018-06-04T18:33:47+00:00

Do you want to be her friend or do you want to hook up and have fun? (read: girls make shitty friends)

Seduction always follows the same formula: Find a girl who is interested in you, get her alone, and escalate physically. She either goes along with it and wants to hook up or doesn't.

But think of it this way: You're playing with house money. You lose nothing by a girl rejecting you any ways, because she's not really this deep, meaningful friend who is going to be there for you and cares about you as a person. And if she is DTF, you get your rocks off and maybe have a plate. Hooray.

My advice: Invite her over for a movie, and show some confidence, try to kiss her, and live with the results. But the longer you wait the small your chances get, because girls don't wait around for guys who don't make moves, they're usually onto the next dude pretty fast.

1NV0K3R · 2018-06-04T18:04:34+00:00

Invite to house.

Escalate.

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_A_L_3_X_ · 2018-06-04T18:23:58+00:00

wtf?

that was super akward.

just learn out of your misstakes.

anabolic92 · 2018-06-04T20:03:59+00:00

Invite her over movie/drinks at yours whatever.
be relaxed, confident. You are a man and like to fuck women, it’s natural.
escalate, dicarlo ladder, don’t look desespérate and try to rush it, build momentum.
read a little about lmr and asd.
whatever happens, it happens. Don’t be harsh on yourself if she rejects you.
next time don’t wait so long.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2018-06-05T02:43:03+00:00

Just admit you like cock.

chazthundergut · 2018-06-04T20:36:18+00:00

You've given a chick one month of free validation, and all you've gotten out of it is her rubbing her thigh against you once?

Make a move, pussy.

Also sidebar ->

DayGameChirality · 2018-06-04T21:15:09+00:00

Try to emphasize with women and you'll see that every time you do shit like that i.e. not escalate it is a sign of disinterest from you to them

batheherandbringher · 2018-06-04T21:19:56+00:00

Next step: Begin handshaking.

Soon, the matchmaker will be able to escort you on dates. By this time next year, you may kiss her, under the matchmaker's supervision.

TheSecondLesson · 2018-06-04T19:52:43+00:00

It's like a flow chart. Are you hanging out with her? Yes? Then escalate. Is she responding to esclation? Yes? Then do her. No? Then blame it on you being a man and show her the door. Move on to new prospect.

Hanging out with a girl and NOT escalating is how you end in the friend zone--which seems to be where you are. Don't trip, its not too late to make a move. If she shoots you down, just be distant and she'll take the hint. Problem solved.

Da_RectumWrecker · 2018-06-05T08:41:38+00:00

Kino escalation could really help you here. Touch her in a non sexual way and gauge her reaction. Grab her hand to demonstrate something, the reason doesn't really matter. After you grab it and are done with whatever the hell you did, keep her hand in yours. Does she leave it there? Does she pull away? If she leaves it there, she wants you to touch her more. Touch her shoulder and leave your hand there. Sit closer to her. Let your leg rest next to hers. Play a little bit of footsie. Once you have a few of those going and she is reacting well, lock eyes with her, grab the back of her head and fucking kiss the shit out of her.

Ricklogical · 2018-06-04T20:45:54+00:00

There is no loss, the longer you hold out but keep interacting with her, the hotter your initial sexual encounter and the more she will blab to everyone she knows about how incredible it was.

Title	I didn't make a move when I could have, now what?
Author	fiendfornicotine
Upvotes	13
Comments	16
Date	June 4, 2018 6:00 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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