Blackpillers: what has changed for you?

MakeSmash0 · 2023-11-05T21:48:54+00:00

It's really what people make of it.

For me the most benefit is not hating myself. My self esteem is WAY better. I understand the duality of human nature - the rich inherit the earth, those without are ruthlessly taken from even more.

Women are the arbiters of this.

I used to blame myself so much for the way I was. Low self esteem despite doing 10x more than most of the women I met who just rolled uphill like a dumb as hell Katamari then cried crocodile tears when their periods were late.

There are levels and hierchies. It is counter to the central point to blackpill but ironically it really matters - peace of mind, actual bliss, has little to do with tje irritation of women's presence.

I sit on the bus with my hood up riding a nice endorphin rush from the gym, people talk all around me and I give no fucks.

I don't fuck with OLD obviously. I don't simp for women. I criticize them as I would criticize men. I avoid them almost fearfully and it bewliders them because they aren't used to it.

Despite being implicitly disrespectful I feel womens emotional impotence and confusion to deal with what they CAN'T have - whether they want it or not, is what makes them lower themselves.

Women are TERRIBLE at managing their own power.

But I work my ass off for peace of mind. I'm mid 30's, have my own place, don't drink and do stupid shit, financially responsible, comfortable but not to comfortable, challenge myself physically -

That's why I say you don't experience fulfilment jerking off and smoking weed all day.

Blackpill let's you know that it's not your fault and that you will never have the Chad experience. It's hard for you because you're ugly and you can choose to let that harshness ruin you, or accept it as reality and choose to find dignity and fulfilment on your own.

Similar to the red pill rage but even worse, most Blackpillers never get to that level of acceptance because they think it means work and hardship are pointless without pussy at the end of the tunnel.

Coming home to your own place and feeling fulfilled just because you are there is something that no woman can replace. More than that, almost no woman can experience it.

That's why they want to degrade you so badly. They are afraid of men being fulfilled by solitude.

You can't regulate or police it though. Men have to want that experience more than all their others desires , lust and greed.

That's just my experience after like a decade of dealing with this stupid shit. When I discovered redpill it was a LOL for me because I was shocked that guys figured this out later in life. I have always had an acute sense of cruelty in others and women have always come off to me as the cruelest creatures on the planet, much moreso than men. (Generally speaking)

Aafan_Barbarro · 2023-11-05T21:34:39+00:00

Why would there be any change? It's just an explanation for why your life is what it already is.

Southern_Fall983 · 2023-11-05T22:32:16+00:00

The relinquishment of chasing an end goal of which I was not destined to attain no matter how many years of endless effort that I used to apply in order to achieve that end goal. I don’t want younger guys to waste their efforts the way I did

NewYorkBetter · 2023-11-05T22:34:48+00:00

No real change in my life tbh. Just acceptance

mrduels · 2023-11-06T04:05:40+00:00

My mental health got significantly better once I accepted that the way people I didn’t know were treating me wasn’t my fault

LoFiPanda14 · 2023-11-05T21:39:20+00:00

“How has your life changed” It hasn’t, it was just a realization this year I knew all along just not defined. An NPC everyday.

Eyesofmalice · 2023-11-05T22:50:43+00:00

I’ve stopped wasting a lot of time trying to meet people. Also life now makes a lot more sense.

BlackPEnjoyer · 2023-11-06T00:40:41+00:00

Made me focus more on improving myself way more than any redpill shit ever would have.

DoinIt989 · 2023-11-06T00:14:24+00:00

I moved to a region/city whete men afe stereotypically short like I am.

Crafty-Interest1336 · 2023-11-06T01:20:47+00:00

Wouldn't really call it a positive change but allowed me to accept that my life isn't entirely my fault but still miserable

SplitWrong5057 · 2023-11-06T20:21:37+00:00

It saves me from wasting time, energy and money. It also made me realize that I can do what I actually want because I dont need to impress women since only looks (bone-structure) matter.

Ok_Ad_2709 · 2023-11-05T21:56:30+00:00

For me it made me have a more practical approach to looksmaxxing. I didn’t have direction on what I needed to do for my specific case to improve SMV. Redpill was too much about “game” which we all know only applies if you actually pass the looks threshold.

Understanding women’s true mindset to “lookism” and dating preferences made me understand just how important looks play a factor. The typical redpill rhetoric only made me overthink it all. Overall I’m glad seeing a community that confirmed what I had suspected was the truth about dating.

Title	Blackpillers: what has changed for you?
Author	xBTx
Upvotes	8
Comments	33
Date	November 5, 2023 9:27 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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