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Single millennials are going into debt because of expensive dating habits.

November 6, 2022
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Title Single millennials are going into debt because of expensive dating habits.
Author RatDontPanic
Upvotes 9
Comments 22
Date November 6, 2022 10:55 PM UTC (3 weeks ago)
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[–]FirstNameVases 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Might as well pay a hooker

[–]Siukslinis_acc 5 points6 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

That's what you get when you try to appear richer than you really are.

There are a ;ot of cheap datingoptions. Especially for a first date you shouldn't spend a lot of money.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

If she has a problem with that then that's a giant red flag, like flag of China level red flag. Always avoid FDS women lol

[–]Siukslinis_acc 2 points3 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Yep. So a cheap first date kinda becomes a bir of a deterrent for goddiggers.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

"Split the check" will greatly diminish your odds of a date on a website but on the bright side the entitled vampiresses will leave you tf alone.

[–]alienamongnormiesBlackPill 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

There are a ;ot of cheap datingoptions. Especially for a first date you shouldn't spend a lot of money.

When I invited my last ex out to coffee or bubble tea the first date, she said that she doesn't do drink dates. She insisted on dinner. And the tab ended up being $106.54 CAD for the both of us. lmfao.

The reality is a lot of women will just say bye bye if you don't open your wallet for her. Because some other simp will. You are competing with a lot of other simps for her attention and affection.

You can choose not to play the game and go MGTOW and just jerk off or maybe go find a hooker now and then. At this point I might choose to go gay. I'm fed up with women in 2022. I have got hit on by a lot of pretty guys, we're talking like stylish fit K-POP/J-POPmaxxed Asian pretty boys hitting me up on Grindr wanting to suck my dick or me to fuck them up the ass, who are far more conventionally attractive than the women who have rejected me. Meanwhile the hope of being able to fuck a hot Asian ABG Stacy seems like a pipedream to me.

Blue pilled cucks on online dating subs keep telling men "self-improve, self-improve, self-improve." Even after I already lost 40 lbs (24% of my starting body weight), got six-pack abs, melted away the fat on my face and revealed a Chad face underneath, softmaxxed with stylish fuckboy clothes and cologne, started gymcelling and putting on muscle and improving my lifts, bulking up recently and still maintaining my six-pack abs even after putting on weight, etc. Women don't have to self-improve for shit and they get male attention. Gay/bi men don't have to self-improve for shit. Gay/bi men attract other gay/bi men within their league. I'm a hot guy and I attract other hot guys. That's how it should be. But women think their shit don't stink and think their pussy is special because Chad broke her back and ghosted her in the past. So she comes to expect commitment from no less than Chad. After all that effort I put in with my diet and the gym, even though I have a handsome face, it's mostly other men who notice and compliment me. I sporadically get lays now and then from women.

[–]Siukslinis_acc 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

  1. She is your ex... so that means that the expensive dates didn't work long term.
  2. Do you really want to be with women who would say bye if you don't open up your wallet for her?
  3. Womens attractions are different than mens attraction. You only mentioned improving your physique and style. What about improving your eloquence, body language, and vocal mannerisms?

[–]Glad-Discount-4761 5 points6 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Still men were ready to pay that much money?,geez...

Now I am starting to think men are dumb lol

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Any man who does that is fucking stupid af.

[–]alienamongnormiesBlackPill 5 points6 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

Now I am starting to think men are dumb lol

It's because men are slaves to their dicks.

I don't want to think about how much money I've spent on dating this year. I even spent money on Tinder Platinum, Bumble Premium, etc. It's depressing to think about. I was dumped last week. Been doing some self-care alone this weekend. Honestly chasing pussy doesn't seem worth the money. The juice doesn't seem worth the squeeze. It's actually dehumanizing as a man to pay for women on dates. Chad doesn't have to pay for shit. Especially when women insist on being taken to expensive restaurants and paid for. When a woman expects you to open up your wallet for her, it's a reminder that you are not Chad.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

It's because men are slaves to their dicks.

That male thirst, it is our biggest enemy.

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

are they low iq

[–]JumboJetz 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Depending on how this study was done it could be bullshit.

It says 25% of millenials report taking on debt for dates. Ouch…sounds bad.

But it also says the most common form of debt was credit cards. Which…..OK I put everything on my credit card but I pay off my balance every month. If I put my date in the credit card do I count as going in to debt?

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

but I pay off my balance every month.

But 1) What if their dates are really expensive; and 2) What if they can't pay it all off?

[–]alienamongnormiesBlackPill 2 points3 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

Restaurants and a lot of entertainment is expensive. And a lot of women expect you to pay for their tab still. It's bullshit. I dropped $106.54 CAD on all-you-can-eat sushi for me and my ex after tax and 15% tip. And I treated her TWICE. So I spent double that. I wanted to stiff them on tips. But my ex kept wanting to go back to that place so I don't want some Chang server to jizz in my food. I eventually put my foot down and insisted we go dutch. And she agreed a couple times and then dumped me because I refused to pay for her shit again. Women want Chad or beta buxx. It's bullshit. And I'm a fit handsome faced dude with six-pack abs and gymcelled. Though a turbo manlet (5'6") and autistic.

Dropping $100+ for sushi for two is bullshit. I can go see a whore for $140 or even less where I live and then eat some skinless chicken breast, rice and whey protein powder with milk at home for way less money. And it's guaranteed sex and more honest. My ex didn't give me the cookie every night...

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

I put "split the check" in my Match dating profile and said fuck it to any woman who had a problem with that. I didn't want the ho's attention anyway. Any woman who had a problem with that was going to be a toxic presence in my life. Best to let them sneer and drift on by.

My wife contacted me first and we did split the checks. She said she didn't want some man thinking she owed him sex. We didn't fuck at all on the first several dates. Was good to me, I wasn't into casual sex either.

[–]TsugaC1 points [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link

This is smart. No women in my sphere will allow a man to pay and obligate them to sex or a second date if the chemistry isn’t matching.

But I doubt men will do this often. They prefer to control the narrative on a date. I bought you things, now you have to show interest or do sex.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump[S] 2 points3 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

But I doubt men will do this often. They prefer to control the narrative on a date. I bought you things, now you have to show interest or do sex.

LOL sucks to be those dudes.

[–]TsugaC1 points [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

The red pill divides half their time screeching that women expect them to pay for dates and meals while simultaneously screeching that women who attempt to split the bill or refuse drinks are too liberal to wife up.

They take a woman paying her own way as a literal rejection.

 

It’s a rejection of the sexual contract for sure, but it is not the rejection of the man.

David Attenborough should narrate “The male has offered a slice and a beer, but the female declines his advances and pulls out her purse. His disappointment is palpable as the expectation of mating has been denied, at least for today. Alas the male wanders into the street dejected, but will pursue the female with renewed vigor. Pursuing with increasingly expensive gifts until a female relents.

Perhaps, next time he’s given the chance, the male should offer the lobster and a stronger intoxicant”

[–]Necessary-Worry1923 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

This reminds me of the girl who said she is too good to dine at Applebee's and keeps asking her date how much money he earns. I think Disney has ruined Western women into thinking they are all princesses and need to be treated like royalty.

Courtney Ryan covered this one...

https://youtu.be/n2uLeA0-ZWo

Maybe a vacation trip to Asia might be a good idea, as many Asian women don't mind having dates at KFC. https://youtu.be/4iYt9eINS8M

[–]NotARussianBot1984 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol.whores cost more than 200 cad. Even fat ones in waterloo are 250 for outcall per hour. I tried to hire one for a friend that didnt get laid for a year.

And sugar babies are even more expensive per date, just per hr is less.

[–]Audio_v 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's on them.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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