Women’s Sexual Partner Count and Ability To Pair Bond:

“When individuals fall in love for the first time they can find enjoyment in having a partner that gives them a feeling of completeness. The relationship sets the stage for the merging of two beings, closer than the bonds of friendship. Each individual is in tune with the feelings and moods of the other, not feeling completely whole without the other.” citation

When you say you want a virgin I understand, but is it because:

  • You’re a virgin yourself.
  • You want an ego boost from having a virgin.
  • You want her to be ‘pure’.

Any of the above answer is fine by me, but the real reason why you would want a virgin is not because of any of the above, but because her sexual partner count greatly affects her ability to bond/feel affection (which is the main thing that most of us want).

Let’s Look at The Science and Data:

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The chances of marrying a virgin was 5% in a pre-tinder era, in 2023? 1% at best.

The more sexual partners she has the lesser the ability to pair bond and be affectionate (in its truest sense) becomes.

If a man wants to marry, his must find a woman that is either a virgin or low notch count (She should not have passed the rubricock threshhold: the sufficient number of partners until she finds her first chad that gives her extreme tingles and then dumps her, after him she is a lost cause…)”

I beg to differ and say IT’S OVER as soon as the digit hits 1.

If you’re her second one before you get married, the likelihood of divorce increases from 6% (virgin wife) to…how much…? 5%... maybe 10%... ? Not so fast buddy boyo, it merely goes up 4 times, you god damn right, the chances of divorce goes up 400%, from 6% to 22%.

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For females the bond with her first romantic partner is something special in more ways than she can imagine, first time experiences of romantic love have heightened sensations from having someone to be completely open with and with whom she can share all her dreams, hopes and fears. THE SECOND TIME IS NOT.

What Does The Science Say About It?

“These emotional and hormonal imprints of first love (at a time when our brains are in such an important growing stage or peak) cause life-long effects not only to our psyche but our biology as well.” Helen Fisher's 2005 fMRI study.

“First love takes longer to heal and leaves an “imprint” on the sensory areas of your brain”

“All of these feelings and experiences we had with our first loves then become a "blueprint" for how we approach relationships later on in our lives. In other words, our personal definition of love is based upon everything we went through with our firsts.“ - Dr. Dardashti citation

Think about it, why marrying a virgin .vs marrying someone with 1 notch count has that much of a difference?

Is it because you’re not her first one and she compares you .vs him or anyone other previous partner before, or could it be that you wasn’t the one who caused the life-long effects that affected her psyche and biology, in ways that the current science only beginning go grasp?

WARNING: STOP READING IF YOU’RE ON THE BRINK OF ROPING

“According to Dr. Dardashti, people often compare their current relationship to their first love in order to determine if their feelings for their current partner align with that definition of love they created from their first experience with it. Because the romantic feelings we had for our first loves felt so great, we want to duplicate them, to experience them again and again with as many people as possible.”

“The fact that these women are in more developed relationships doesn't rid them of the pleasure that arises from remembering their first real taste of pure, unfettered desire.

So, perhaps a first love really is the deepest. For one, first loves seem to help us craft our definition of love -- which, as we all know, varies from person to person. And this definition appears to be the one off which we've based all of our relationships.

Throughout our romantic lives, the emotions we felt for our first loves have acted as a standard for every subsequent love. And even though those loves came and went, and even though that first one faded into the past, the standard remained. In that sense, perhaps a first love is the deepest in a literal way.” source

Add up all the scientific data you’ve read and take into account the chart of divorce chances increasing by 400% if she has 1 notch count, what conclusions can you make?

Her “Love” Short Circuits Are Fried.

If she’s not a virgin she will never love you. You might think that she loves you, she might think that she loves you, but as we already established, the love she had for her first romantic partner is different, it’s “pure”.

TLDR: It's ovER, if you're not hER first.