When sub-8 guys get married

Critiqu3r · 2023-10-04T09:46:26+00:00

This is why I so strictly hold to a belief in physical attractiveness primacy.

It does not matter if she married you or is in a relationship with you.

Going your whole 20s with no sex or relationship only to be settled for in your 30s is a sub-par solution.

Only thing that matters is if she is physically attracted to YOU.

ItsMarcusBrown · 2023-10-04T09:53:20+00:00

Lmaooo you weren’t lying about that being a blackpill mine!

DarkAdmirable653 · 2023-10-04T12:18:41+00:00

Men should never get married reason 53464352

jaypb182 · 2023-10-04T09:49:58+00:00

She is divorcing me for him

LMAO you love to see it.

UnknownAspectt · 2023-10-04T10:12:59+00:00

The first link "I don't know what got in to her"

Almost every time if your girlfriend/wife starts randomly being super nice and sexual with you in a LTR and you're a beta Bob...lolol. put it together bro

Dapper_Level2915 · 2023-10-04T11:03:14+00:00

I found my Wife’s Bumble account

I finally asked her if there was anything that she was hiding for me anything that she felt like she needed to tell me and she said no, of course. I just sat there for a while and she finally got aggravated with me and just told me to quit playing games and tell her “what she did” I told her I found her bumble and she smirked first, face got a little red, then she chuckled and said “yeah so?”….. at that point I was furious because I felt like she was negating all my feelings. She then proceeded to tell me that there are two sections on bumble, one for dating, and then one for meeting new friends. The part that I don’t buy is we have a really strong friend group we have about eight friends who we are really close with. We see them weekly and hang out weekly, I don’t understand why she would be wanting to make our circle bigger? It just doesn’t make sense and it sounds really fishy.

this just made me wonder could bumble have BFF setting as a built in plausible deniability feature since it caters to women (they have to message first)

undermining existing relationships would create more business/ongoing business for the app

Dapper_Level2915 · 2023-10-04T10:48:54+00:00

I bought my wife a thank you card today for having s*x with me.

for women, sex with nonch4d is like running errands and doing chores all day for men

I found my Wife’s Bumble account

I assume every woman on OLD is in at the very least some kind of situationship, and if they got into relationship from it, would never delete the app

Struggling with wife’s friendship with her male coworker

the justfriendspill was one of the first pills I learned

got cold approched by a girl who wanted to have sex immediately like within an hour of meeting, and we did. was planning to meet again but before that happened

ran into her and some dude (her BF I was too naive to assume she had) and she introduced me like "this is my friend..."

I was like ooohhh so thats what they mean when they say "my friend so and so"

one "just friends" said her BF (my ch4d friend who mogs me) was controlling because he didn't want us to hang out alone yet every time we were alone she would try to kiss me

EverVigilant1 · 2023-10-04T14:49:20+00:00

That last guy, "Struggling with wife's friendship with her male coworker", is the one whose wife left him for said coworker. He posted that about 6 weeks ago, 8/30/2023.

I checked the guy's reddit history. He's on Hinge. He's 29. He gets better results than you'd expect. Some women say he's attractive. He gets 26 matches, has had "3-4 fun conversations". He'll get a few dates out of it. But look at how hard he's having to work. He has one good marker - he's divorced. He has several bad ones - if he doesn't get at least a red pill digested, this dating market will eat him alive. Women will lie to him, cheat on him, pull shit behind his back, use him, and take advantage of him.

Meanwhile, we can reasonably surmise, his ex wife has the coworker, a couple of guys she's "talking to", and at least one guy every day sliding into her DMs, without even trying. And she's banging the coworker and probably at least one of the "talking to" guys.

Here's what this guy needs to internalize right now:

--never ever remarry, not under any circumstances.

--no cohabitation, never, not under any circumstances

--if he's using OLD, push for early meeting. If a woman won't meet after one-two days of texting, cut her loose and ghost

--first date is one drink, at a bar. One drink, no more than one hour. Absolutely NO food. Unless the date is going very well, it's over at one hour and one drink. Go for the kiss at the end of the date. If she does anything other than kiss enthusiastically, next her. She's not attracted.

--second date: optional activity. Clothes must come off and something sexual needs to happen at this date. If she resists or refuses, immediately disengage and end the date, and ghost. She's not attracted.

Yes, this has to be how it is. Women in today's sexual market place have done this with men before. There's at least a 90% chance any woman this guy gets to a second meeting with gave it up to a Chad by date 2. So he either gets what Chad got to have, or she's not attracted. If she's not attracted, end the date immediately and ghost.

RevolutionaryOil6120 · 2023-10-04T14:18:51+00:00

Poor dudes. They found out before it was too late. Luckily we have the info now to know how they act and behave. This is what happens to blue pill guys.

Hubris1998 · 2023-10-04T15:53:24+00:00

I bought my wife a thank you card today for having s*x with me.

My first instinct reading that post was "she's definitely cheating and struggling with feelings of guilt"

West-Advice · 2023-10-04T16:33:25+00:00

Honestly, I don’t see why this makes someone black pilled. My typical joking aside I feel for these guys and the shit suck. Woman and people in general can fuck you over and the shit hurts. However, it’s a lesson to be aware of your relationship, a duck is a duck, and don’t let anyone play you crazy.

First story was kind of cute and being woken up by blow jobs are AWLAYS awesome.
Second is sad and doesn’t look good.

The guy didn’t have ANY previous sexual experience and married the first girl he fuck and under a year. Not a good idea because you have no experience or knowledge of what a GOOD relationship is. It’s like buying the first car you ever test drive.

Wife seemed to always be bigger and slimmed down. Hubby seem slim for a while. As well as started taking care of herself. Nothing wrong inherently with that, but be aware to make sure the behavior is consistent and not too “Show”. I.e. dressing too provocatively, not being sexy for you, dressing overly well for the situation (wearing full make up and revealing gym outfit while working out.)

Damn dude, honestly she’s up to some bullishit. You don’t have to be up to date with everything on social media but it’s important to be aware of them and how the apps work. unfortunately instagram has a secret message/ auto delete feature and regular bumble is dating. WIFE IS EXANDING HER OPTIONS. New weight loss, inexperienced husband, cocky bitchy attitude towards feelings, hiding stuff.

I’d suggest leaving.

Take aways, don’t commit to women when you have little to no experience ESPECIALLY when she had plenty of it.

Be aware of when self care becomes advertising.

Here disregard and disrespect says all. Looks like chica was looking for a come up.

Damn dude.

She’s definitely cluster b, from the gas lighting, to the lying, the disregard, the disrespect the list goes on.

MY NIGGA SHE ”HELPED AND APPROVED OF THE POST?” ALL I NEED TO KNOW 🚩
If it looks like she’s dating her co-worker to other co-workers…she’s probably fucking him.
No one works 60 hours 6 days a week 24/7 365 for years on end that isn’t rich or have a drug habit. She’s with him at least 2 days out of the week. As well as when she wakes up and goes to sleep…

FUCK IT THIS WILL BE A MILE LONG

If your girl is spending more time with another guy that she isn’t related to than you for “fun” that’s a red flag.

Her being allowed to be courted is a 🚩

So blatant co-workers tried to help. 🚩

Texting a guy for “fun” 🚩

Your low self-esteem and YOUR WIFE NOT EVEN VALUING YOUR MENTAL HEALTH…Fucking 🚩.

Just…this dude needs so therapy. Damn

ZookeepergameTasty12 · 2023-10-04T21:01:05+00:00

Bruh lmao.

The memes really do write themselves.

All men need to be introduced to the blackpill

Title	When sub-8 guys get married
Author	mewbestpokeman
Upvotes	44
Comments	29
Date	October 4, 2023 9:29 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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FUCK IT THIS WILL BE A MILE LONG