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Why do people think misogynists and misandrists exist for no reason?

September 4, 2022
11 upvotes

Over on PPD, AskFeminists, and other similar subreddits it seems like when they talk about misogynists/misandrists; they seem to be under the impression they just popped up in some kind of vacuum and hate women/men for no reason.

People become misogynists and misandrists because of repeated bad experiences with the opposite sex. These negative experiences usually happen at younger formative ages where your psychological constitution and personality are being molded. And these negative experiences happen frequently enough to form a long lasting impression in your mind that the opposite sex is something to hate, because they have treated you poorly.

Its not exactly hard to figure out...

I'm a firm believer in determinism and think there is a reason behind most things people do. Each action, each thought, is intertwined in a complex web of events that preceded it. If someone hates the opposite sex, is it really so hard to fathom that they have thier reasons for it?

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Title Why do people think misogynists and misandrists exist for no reason?
Author Antisocial_Nihilist
Upvotes 11
Comments 21
Date September 4, 2022 5:42 AM UTC (3 months ago)
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[–]Glad-Discount-47611 points [recovered] (12 children) | Copy Link

It amazes me that some men still spend time in those subs just to argue about misandrists or whatever.This is like mental prison.

When I first joined reddit, fds was first sub I got to know,I was like,"This is insane".Don't spend time there.

We all are giving them attention no matter if it is criticism.Just imagine if no one gives fuck about them.

[–]BoxxyFoxxy 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Women in real world can’t choose to avoid misogynists though. They’re all over the place.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

FACTSS!! Immediately I see subs I don’t like, I disengage

[–]EnteFetz 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

That is how filter bubbles and echo chambers are created. Free speach also means that controversial opinions have to be publicly challenged.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Nah it brutalizes my mental health and perception of women

[–]boomershack 1 point2 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

I miss FDS 😔 Being able to see how they really thought and what they believed was eye openingly entertaining.

[–]Glad-Discount-47611 points [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link

Don't miss them. FDS is just mean girls who peaked in high school

[–]boomershack 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

Mean girls are cool.

[–]Glad-Discount-47611 points [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

Well you like what you like.

I don't believe what guy say this.Mean girls are just used for enjoying sex not dating unless they hit the wall

[–]Pilling_it 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Echo chambers, and me me me mentality.

Most of them don't care about what is in front of them or how it came to be, so long they can whine about it.

[–]MAGA-Latino 3 points4 points  (7 children) | Copy Link

They don't even blame the women for their bad behavior which led a man to become a misogynist. They think it's OK that said woman to be able to be as shitty as possible and if a man dares to say anything about it, something is wrong with him.

[–]BoxxyFoxxy 1 point2 points  (6 children) | Copy Link

And where does the women’s “bad behavior” come from, according to you? What if they’re sick of sexism they go through every single day of their lives which causes the “bad behavior”?

[–]MAGA-Latino 0 points1 point  (5 children) | Copy Link

I don't know maybe everyone is just stuck in a bad positive feedback loop. Like they say that "hurt people, hurt people".

Still don't think that gives anyone an excuse to mistreat someone. Everyone is responsible for their own actions.

[–]BoxxyFoxxy 1 point2 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

So shouldn’t we blame the original sexists then according to the logic you initially proposed?

[–]MAGA-Latino 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

I guess so but those original sexists probably had people before them. It's about breaking that cycle.

[–]back_in_blyat 1 point2 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Do you think years of academic instruction pushing young girls towards misandry has no effect though? I know plenty of girls that have never actually had any abnormal experiences with men that got sucked down the feminist rabbit hole due to their time in the university that became insufferable cretins. There are certainly men who have done the same with newer grift nonsense "red pill" content online, although not nearly as many as their female counterparts.

[–]BumblingBeta 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree with you. No one hates the opposite sex that much for no reason. There's always a reason for it - a bad experience, or multiple bad experiences, with the opposite sex, which has led them to think this way.

I was having a conversation with a woman in the plenty of fish subreddit (plenty of fish is a dating site). I was told that I had to give bitter angry women "a chance" because "you don't know what's happened in their life". Yet when a man is bitter and angry, he's immediately labelled an incel, a misogynist, a creep, a loser etc. No one is giving that man a chance. Just shows the double standards in dating.

[–]PMmeareasontolive 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Not really. Lots of bigots have very limited experience with the objects of their derision. We project a lot of our negativity outward. To the extent that some feel we always have to have an external enemy to become the focus of what is actually our own self-hate. Cults work that way as well, defining the self in opposition to the other in a way that often dehumanizes the other.

Freud said it's always possible to gather together a group of people under the aegis of Love, so long as you reserve some group of people aside to be the target of their hate.

[–]carlenvirgo 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

If we smart enough to be aware of why we resent the opposite sex.. than we can make changes accordingly.

The repeated bad experiences have a lot to do to the projected resentment, therefore causing the other to react and therefore causing the repeated bad cycle.

[–]BoogersAndSugar 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Let me let you in on a dirty little secret: They KNOW better, but won't admit it because that would discredit their narrative.

[–]RatDontPanicAverage Unfrustrated Chump 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Misogynists exist because men are evil. Misandrists exist because men are evil. Disagree with this and you'll be banned from Reddit.

/s

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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