Why do people think misogynists and misandrists exist for no reason?

Glad-Discount-4761 · 2022-09-04T06:42:02+00:00

It amazes me that some men still spend time in those subs just to argue about misandrists or whatever.This is like mental prison.

When I first joined reddit, fds was first sub I got to know,I was like,"This is insane".Don't spend time there.

We all are giving them attention no matter if it is criticism.Just imagine if no one gives fuck about them.

Pilling_it · 2022-09-04T12:35:59+00:00

Echo chambers, and me me me mentality.

Most of them don't care about what is in front of them or how it came to be, so long they can whine about it.

MAGA-Latino · 2022-09-04T05:48:40+00:00

They don't even blame the women for their bad behavior which led a man to become a misogynist. They think it's OK that said woman to be able to be as shitty as possible and if a man dares to say anything about it, something is wrong with him.

back_in_blyat · 2022-09-04T14:39:24+00:00

Do you think years of academic instruction pushing young girls towards misandry has no effect though? I know plenty of girls that have never actually had any abnormal experiences with men that got sucked down the feminist rabbit hole due to their time in the university that became insufferable cretins. There are certainly men who have done the same with newer grift nonsense "red pill" content online, although not nearly as many as their female counterparts.

BumblingBeta · 2022-09-04T14:54:14+00:00

I agree with you. No one hates the opposite sex that much for no reason. There's always a reason for it - a bad experience, or multiple bad experiences, with the opposite sex, which has led them to think this way.

I was having a conversation with a woman in the plenty of fish subreddit (plenty of fish is a dating site). I was told that I had to give bitter angry women "a chance" because "you don't know what's happened in their life". Yet when a man is bitter and angry, he's immediately labelled an incel, a misogynist, a creep, a loser etc. No one is giving that man a chance. Just shows the double standards in dating.

PMmeareasontolive · 2022-09-04T19:46:54+00:00

Not really. Lots of bigots have very limited experience with the objects of their derision. We project a lot of our negativity outward. To the extent that some feel we always have to have an external enemy to become the focus of what is actually our own self-hate. Cults work that way as well, defining the self in opposition to the other in a way that often dehumanizes the other.

Freud said it's always possible to gather together a group of people under the aegis of Love, so long as you reserve some group of people aside to be the target of their hate.

carlenvirgo · 2022-09-04T22:20:45+00:00

If we smart enough to be aware of why we resent the opposite sex.. than we can make changes accordingly.

The repeated bad experiences have a lot to do to the projected resentment, therefore causing the other to react and therefore causing the repeated bad cycle.

BoogersAndSugar · 2022-09-06T06:23:37+00:00

Let me let you in on a dirty little secret: They KNOW better, but won't admit it because that would discredit their narrative.

RatDontPanic · 2022-09-08T01:10:07+00:00

Misogynists exist because men are evil. Misandrists exist because men are evil. Disagree with this and you'll be banned from Reddit.

/s

Title	Why do people think misogynists and misandrists exist for no reason?
Author	Antisocial_Nihilist
Upvotes	12
Comments	27
Date	September 4, 2022 5:42 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AllPillDebate
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