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Why women hate incels

January 6, 2023

Outside hating us for our looks there's a few other reasons they hate us. When they hear us complain about not being able to get laid it angers them for two reasons. The first is that a woman's ultimate power is sexual power, ability to reject men, ability to sell out their body on only fans and social media, etc... So when a man doesn't accept rejection from all women and settle down to be forever alone it takes away their sexual power. Another reason is women's high and obsessive fear of rape. They want men to just take rejections and again settle down and cope, but when a man who's rejected by almost all women complains they see him as going against the entire idea of consent and their sexual power so they're afraid he'll rape women in the future. Basically women not only hate us because we're subhuman but because they don't have power over us and they're afraid of us. They want us to be good little boys and settle down, what they don't want us to do is create a movement against them online. They fear inevitably they'll lose their power over men and things will go like they do in the middle east.

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Title Why women hate incels
Author Whisperinthelair
Upvotes 5
Comments 20
Date January 6, 2023 7:26 PM UTC (2 months ago)
Subreddit /r/AllPillDebate
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[–]HateSpeechFanBoy 7 points8 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

They hate sexually unsuccessful men, they especially hate sexually unsuccessful men who don’t shut up and accept their place

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link


[–]EulenWatcher 4 points5 points  (4 children) | Copy Link

Most people know about incels from mass shooting news and some memes about them, that’s all. Some women also have encountered incels online and/or seen incel content full of hatred towards women. So the reaction of distrust, disdain and being wary of incels is an expected reaction in this context really.

But most women just don’t think much about incels, just as men generally don’t think about women struggling with dating and who are far from their social circle.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Women don't hate incels they make and encourage inceldom. They project their own self image onto them.

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] -2 points-1 points  (2 children) | Copy Link

There's still fear of them. Women fear incels and that fear manifests into hate. Beautiful really, makes me feel all warm and fuzzy in the inside.

[–]EulenWatcher 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

There’s fear of violent mass shooters, but I think most people just don’t really care about incels.

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

They do if social media is a judge of anything.

[–]platinirismsBlackPill 4 points5 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

That’s dumb.

  1. Incels don’t choose to become foreveralone, they’re forced into the position, is a single cute woman came by and agreed to date them, they’d immediately jump on the opportunity. Women genuinely don’t care about ugly men that vanish from their existence. Like /r/foreveralone

  2. If it’s about their fear of rape, they’d avoid frat boys and sexually successful men, virgins are the least likely group of people to rape women.

The reason they hate Incels is because

  1. Many of them are openly misogynistic and proud of that.

  2. They claim women are an extremely shallow group of people that basically only date men based on their looks, status, and wealth, while simultaneously ignoring kind, respectable, decent men due to something as shallow as their height or skin colour.

  3. Incel shootings and killings, doesn’t help when Incels have had a minimum of 5 ‘incel’ related killings, most aimed directly at killing women. When your average person hears “incel” this is what they picture.

[–]tired_hillbilly 6 points7 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

WAY more women have been killed by the dirtbags they date than by incels they don't.

[–]LevelDosNPC 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

Why jewish people hate the nation of islam

[–]LevelDosNPC 2 points3 points  (0 children) | Copy Link

Why NAMBLA hates Chris Hanson

[–]Pilling_it 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

People dislike unattractive people. That's all there is to it.

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

No, there's an automatic women are wonderful effect that helps women that men don't have. Every ugly girl I know eventually finds happiness.

[–]Last-Post2085 0 points1 point  (3 children) | Copy Link

There is a difference between

  • an incel
  • a man who is a virgin

You should learn it

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

If he wants to lose it and can't he is an incel.

[–]Last-Post2085 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

No he is just a virgin. An incel is someone who hates women and wants to hurt them like Elliot Rogers.

[–]Whisperinthelair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

That's not true. That's just a normie version of an incel. Lol.

[–]Evoluntionarytree911 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

They hate incels because they are pretentious and ignorant. Get a life man and stop bitching.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s only the western women who hate them

[–]unknownpolishartist 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

First of all, as a woman: hate is quite a strong word - we just arent gonna date anyone who doesn't like us, and that is the feeling you get from incels. Especially when you say you have unsatisfied sexual life and blame it on us: we are human beings, not tools for your sexual satisfaction and putting so much pressure on sex takes all the fun and romance from dating you. Personally, I don't hate incels - I just think they are stupid (because why would you bitch about women while you want to have a relationship with one of them, maybe you should think twice about your sexual orientation), dangerous (because of mass shootings etc) and sad.

I have never met an incel with interesting personality f.ex. someone who has ambitions outside living tamagotchi life which consist of eating, working and sleeping. I feel like if you actually developed nice hobby, spend quality time with friends and family, read some books, watch a movie and got outside of women-hating-bubble you could develop a fullfilling life and sooner or later someone would like to be a part of it (quite probably many people and you would be the one choosing from many options).

I also feel that some of you just need therapy to go through issues that you didn't manage to solve yourself because of the patriarchal upbringing. And while as a woman I don't have a problem with helping my partner to go through hard times I need to feel that we both do the job that is required to have a better, more fulfilling life. I want to be your partner: not mum, not maid, not therapist, just someone who loves you and is being loved. You can't live a miserable life hating yourself and others, waiting for a girl that is going to change everything for you.

There is also a huge group of intelligent succesfull and beautiful women that are incels and somehow they don't blame their sexual frustration on men and don't bitch about men online. Some of them are virgins and yet you act like sex is something that should be given casually to you just because you said so while you can't offer respect and minimum interest in what goes through our minds. I also feel that something that is normal for us is a huge tragedy for you - my brother could go into incel pipeline because he haven't had sex with another woman since his last relationship... But he uses his brain and he knows that the fact he doesn't have any relationship for 2 or 3 years and nothing goes out of dating doesn't mean that women don't want to have sex with him - it's just because feelings are not mutual, it's wrong person, wrong time etc. I also have been lonely between my relationships and I feel like incels are just overdramatic.

I actually feel sorry for you because I know that your hate towards women is created by your loneliness and frustration and I am sure that there are a lot of men who just went into incel pipeline because they looked for a place of belonging but feeling sorry for anyone will neither make me want to have a relationship with them nor go to bed with them, especially knowing that there is a huge hatred towards me and other women.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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