So I say this from the perspective that this is messy behavior to me which does NOT compare to most of y’all in gravity. So my soon to be Ex (just filed for divorce on 1/6) monkey branched my ass basically and told me she wanted a divorce on 11/13. She didn’t want to work on the relationship after 18 years together. Ok fine whatever. I moved out (it was just an apartment, not a house) that weekend cause she told me she developed feelings for another man but “hadn’t cheated” lol and did not want to work on the relationship. Told her I didn’t want to talk to her about anything other than divorce or pets (which she has) and haven’t said a peep. Her as well. Now I think it was to hurt me but her close friend messaged me IG to tell me they spent Xmas together and couldn’t believe it lol ok fine, I told her to please refrain from contacting me again (I deleted them all from IG literally the next day when she told me she wanted divorce). Well yesterday she did her uber ride share with me. I don’t outreach for clarification but my friend who is a manager and hired my ex at her bar, messaged me that she showed up with her new guy lol like what in the fuck would she do that. It makes no damn sense. Is she crashing out? I don’t frankly care but can’t imagine why anyone would even do that? Is it just saltiness that I’m trying to find logic to? Anyways lol hopefully a funny read but figured I’d ask the pro’s