Don’t get me wrong, I truly enjoy the companionship of a female but,

considering that one has already gone through a long term relationship that ended brutally and made one go through probably one of the hardest period’s of one’s life completely alone …

it made one in a way extremely resilient to the point of enjoying being alone and free of a lot of BS that one had to put up with during marriage.

The issue now is … why should one ever get into a new relationship or let me put it this way- once you had kids and are not looking to have more- what is the new type of relationship ? And what partner should one be looking for…?

Once you feel well alone, it’s so powerful and so easy to default to: “hey eff this, I really don’t need this or to put up with this sh#%^ anymore, let me just be alone for a bit … i just want peace”

It’s a cliche but, man I crave peace so much.

How are you guys 3plus or more (or that are completely over the ex- and feel well alone) after divorce approaching dating and the partners you choose?

(Small parenthesis- the other day a woman was so intrigued (& and I felt her so horny) that I hadn’t “found” another partner and was alone… this made me think a lot how powerful is to be okay to be alone… at any rate food for thought)