I posted something earlier today, that I needed advice on, but I've been presented with a whole other enchilada. Please refer to my other post for background and substance.
Just now, she asks if we're still going to the cub scout campout this weekend. It's like she wants me around for the stuff she wants help with, but when it comes to the marriage, she's done with me. If I go to the campout, it's going to be a series of very uncomfortable conversations with various parents. Just concerned. Looking forward to some feedback.
Edit: After looking ar some of the comments (thank you for them BTW), I realized that I had left out an important detail. When we go camping, we take a pop-up camper which only my truck can haul. I was going to do it for her as I have been the exploited plowhorse for years, so if I went, it would just be me, my son, and her in the pop-up.
My son will be fine with me not going and I think this would be a good opportunity to start practicing this separation, as it will be the norm once the divorce is finalized. I think I will take the pop-up to the site and drop it off so that I am giving a little bit, but not giving her the opportunity to parade me around as the guy she's getting rid of and having to deal with the uncomfortable feelings that come with those conversations. Thank you gents for the responses.
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