I (26m) have been with my wife (26f) for a decade, married for a little over a year. Things went downhill so fast once I got my full time job after graduating law. We have been separated since January, I’ve been going to therapy on my own and I tried to get her to go to couples counseling; however she went to three sessions, said her feelings haven’t changed and refused to do any of the work outside of the sessions our therapist recommended. About a month ago, she informed me that she wants a divorce. We split up our stuff, I didn’t fight it because if that’s what she wants then so be it, I’m not going to force a marriage with someone that doesn’t truly want to be with me. However, back around a month ago she told me she would be filing. Fast forward to today and we have had little to no contact, however, she has yet to file for divorce. I am just confused because she seemed hellbent on it and nothing was going to change her mind but here I am, not served, still technically married. Any advice would help with trying to interpret what’s going on because honestly at this point I’m extremely confused.