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We dont have a house and money to give her… my main issue is my kid and paying potentially child support when she has more money than me
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/25 07:29 PM
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This posts make me wanna stay unhappy in my marriage… Try to live a minimalist life, dont overspend and try to level up in your profession or find a second job
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/25 05:47 PM
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I thought my wife was the worst… 🤣 No she doesn’t want divorce… why would while shes using me and doing nothing for me!
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/25 02:18 AM
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Thank you for this comment. Actually her parents will get the karma back because they didn’t know how to raise her… its been month im thinking everyday of doing this but something holding me back!!! But i have made the decision already is that just my heart will catch up later…
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/25 12:16 AM
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Thank god we dont own a house, just rent and kid is still just 3.5 years old so now the time to do this…
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/25 03:02 PM
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I can see it coming from her… but the truth is with me. Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/25 03:21 AM
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Just a girl who had no love when she was a little girl i guess knowing her ignorant parents
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/25 01:11 AM
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Shes not alcoholic or addicted for me to do this… and the kid need both of us!
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/25 01:09 AM
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Her love to the kid is related to her ego and fears!
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 08:23 PM
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I get it. You sound exactly like my mom… but im not gonna feel guilty for being honest, a great dad and husband! I just deserve better… fuck being a douchbag… even if i was vladimir putin😂 with some people you cant be the leader only options is : kiss it goodbye
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 08:22 PM
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Beginning was different since she got earning more and more and took her money from her bank. Also found out she transferred lot of money outside when i confronted her she said i did it to buy the house we saw in the summer… 🤥🤥. All i want is 50/50 child custody and i dont pay child support since she has more than me but gonna be har to prove it
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 08:20 PM
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Not worth it… the good and the bad cant stay together!!! Yes we have separate expenses and fight sometimes. She has 4 more times money than me in her bank account and expects to pay 50/50… im getting behing meanwhile she works and make the sacrifices especially for the baby by staying with her when im not working
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 04:25 PM
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I got cut the chain holding me first…
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 03:21 PM
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Bro since i meet her 9 years ago never speak with or texted another woman in a sexual way… she will never cheat me too shes just emotional immature her family is ignorant and raised her bad
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 03:21 PM
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I like this quite recently: sometimes, you gotta take a decision that will brake your heart, but will save your soul… no one will take my kindness for granted anymore! One of this days my friend…🤞💪 Yep i almost never lie and im very honest and thats how you people take advantage of you but i got put some boundaries and be more decisive
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 02:27 PM
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Do you have kids? How do i handle this is so hard thinking about.. and will be a hard thing on me financially too but i know after a year things will get better and i will improve💪
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/25 02:11 PM
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You got me at brandi love😂
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/25 02:35 AM
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No kid?
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/25 02:51 PM
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I mean her lawyer and i will have separate ones for sure… but is gonna be hard on me financially 😞
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 04:44 PM
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Actually you guys are right… im not gonna move till i get an agreement even though gonna be hard i said to her dont let our future lawyer take out money lets get a deal but you know how this women's are…
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 04:37 PM
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Two layers I consulted two said to move on no legal problems… ehhh i know it profits them but yeah thats what they told me i was surprised! Do you have personal experience with the family court?
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 04:31 PM
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This system is fuck*d up… 😞
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 04:29 PM
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How to live for a whole year same house looks impossible… my goal is 50/50 child custody or even if i take it friday to sunday im ok(hurts me badly but cant let my wife use my love for my kid keeping me with her) because i have to work and dont pay child support since she has more money than me(gonna be hard to prove it)
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 04:26 PM
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I can prove that i was sahd for two years and still take care of her like crazy… i started once divorce but i withdrew it within a month to give my wife a chance but cant take it anymore! But yeah probably at least i wont move till i get an written agreement?!
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/25 04:25 PM
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Thank you for all this! Is going to be a tough battle…
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/25 03:57 PM
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I had one, i served her the papers and I withdrew it to give her another chance but she doesn’t change… ehhh lawyers they have cold approach and dont care about your situation they want the money anyway as i said my financial situation is tight but i will get a lawyer… we have no assets, only thing i will “lose” is seeing my kid less😞 better struggle a year till a find my self again then staying with an ungrateful and cover narcissist!! Im jealous sometimes for r men i know and they mentality of…
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/25 02:31 PM
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Thank god your ex is being good… mine i imagine gonna be evil in case divorce happens
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 03:00 AM
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That’s my greatest fear… holding me back for pulling the trigger
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/25 02:54 AM
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Thats my question too…. We rent too no assets we have a kid thats is my whole world, but cant imagine staying same home meanwhile i start the divorce! By law is no penalty if you move from your house as long as you keep in touch with your kid! In practice if your wife is 😈 (most of them are)… is gonna be a problem for child support and child custody! Dont move till it becomes imminent for a domestic violence or if you get an agreement is better…
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/24 10:15 PM
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Tell me about the part she keeps all her money… because mine is the same! She has moreee than me in her bank account and the expenses are 50/50 almost!!! It pisses me off
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/24 01:51 PM
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If thats the only reason is not enough for divorce… my wife sucks as a mother, but also as a wife, as a daughter in law and as person in general! Dont know how long it will last before i pull the trigger…
/r/Divorce_Men22/12/24 01:49 PM
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Can i do myself if we dont have assets, no debts separate accounts but a kid
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/24 12:38 AM
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I thought my situation was worst… but im not alone! Run man run… and fight hard for your money and your kids! Dont have mercy for her, no more empathy!!!
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/24 09:46 PM
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Nothing wrong with who files first… i dont understand people(i do in a way that nowadays most of women's are not worth it) that say women destroys family because they initiate 80% of divorces. I filed first for so many reasons some of them match with yours… but i withdraw it to give my wife another chance but not sure if i did the right thing
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/24 01:37 PM
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You didn’t take a lawyer for you case? Is it possible? Especially with a kid included but no assets
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/24 01:53 PM
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Happy is not the right word because happiness is an inside job. But am I my best self or fulfilled in this marriage ? Hell NO
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 10:58 PM
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What did you do for her to behave like this? If you take her back dont beg her and keep looking forward… if she contact you go for it if she’d doesn’t than is not for you
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/24 08:59 PM
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Any kids? Assets? Did you stay same home or you moved before?
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/24 12:51 AM
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Exactly my feelings… started process 2 weeks ago. Feeling not respected and loved during my marriage. I dont love her anymore… but my sadness i feel is because i have a kid… screw her can go to hell. Is hard to change your way of living after 14 years but you will make it
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 11:13 PM
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Thank you for all of this.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/24 05:45 PM
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Without kids should be easy… trying to save your finances and dont beg to your wife, you are the prize dont forget!
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/24 09:32 PM
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Tell me brother… this is a good place to show your feelings! We may give advice to each orher
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/24 09:16 PM
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She said the reason was to buy the house that we looked in summer in our birth country… even if thats true how you do it without telling me first? Dont know man i feel like i deserve more but my kid is everything for me but when i think that half of marriages end in divorce is mot the end of the world
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/24 09:01 PM
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I can prove she makes more than me and that she transferred the money… even though she makes some money get paid cash! All i want is 50/50 kid and she pay child support thats fair but lets see how it goes…
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/24 08:52 PM
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My other concern 😅 but they say freedom has no price😅
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/24 08:50 PM
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Thats a billion $ question man… we all suffer “to stay(for the kids) and keep sacrificing our happiness or pull the trigger(suffer for some time and regain happiness and piece). But as a saying: better an end with pain than a pain without ending…. Follow your intuition and heart! P.S sorry for my English
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/24 01:53 AM
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If you get the legal custody too not only physical so you can take decisions about your kids without the permission of your crazy wife😂
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/24 11:31 AM
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If you prove it that she has such problems you can or at least get 70/30 dont give up
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/24 01:05 PM
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Bro you have the easiest situation… get out asap no kids and keeping your finances in place is 💯 stop sacrificing for her shes an energy vampire sucker
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/24 08:50 PM
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I come to realization that: we get what we tolerate for”… that means that nice and good guys like you and me gets f*cked up by their wives or even in life!!!
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/24 12:02 PM
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Exactly two lawyer i asked said move drom the house(dont own rent) and i said them same story i heard here that is hard for custody… apparently is just a mythology
/r/Divorce_Men20/10/24 12:00 PM
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So i keep sacrificing my happiness no matter what ufff
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 11:30 PM
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Children feels the vibe of a positive and negative energy around them…
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 07:00 PM
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Nooooo nothing like that ever… she just took me for granted all this years and now that im standing for myself she trying to act differently…
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 05:36 PM
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You moved from the house you own or rent? Any kids?
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 11:25 AM
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Is 3 years old cant wait 15 years more
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 02:12 AM
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Honestly i dont love her anymore due to what i have been through these yetand dont believe she will change is all about childhood trauma even her parents are the same
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 12:33 AM
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I know my wife very well from a psychological point and I except everything from her… shes being good right now but i know it will change during the road
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 12:31 AM
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She said she loves me but her actions show me otherwise… kid is my world i was sahd for 2 years only god know what i did go through
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/24 12:29 AM
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You did the right thing but try to protect your assets and money
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/24 11:11 AM
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Why did you file and do you have kids(which i doubt)? Dont trust dating apps they scammers and waste of time…
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/24 12:12 AM
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In the beginning she loved me… but the red signs were there! Unstable emotionally, not listening and respecting me, hating my family for nos reasons… taking away my friends, shes not good as a mother… keeping her money in her bank account etc never accepting fault and seeing no mistakes in her actions
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/24 10:17 AM
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Thats a stupid and stereotype comment
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/24 08:23 PM
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Better to cheat than be emotional immature, selfish, toxic and ungrateful
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/24 02:36 PM
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Thank you, she’s cried and trying “to fix” all my issues with her… i dont trust her though but the kid is the only thing makes things hardy
/r/Divorce_Men15/10/24 01:13 AM
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I have my lawyer shes female though i have my doubts
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 10:53 PM
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Especially her money that was supposed to be family money… she is the breadwinner because i was sahd for 2 years
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 10:20 PM
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🥲 mine is incapable of loving except herself she has some traits of narcissistic people
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 10:19 PM
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I dont blame you with so little information i put on my post… anyway
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/24 10:10 PM
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I dont love her anymore due to her behavior and she will never change because she sees no mistakes in her actions…
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 04:53 PM
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We live in the same house gonna be hard to cut communication but once she will be served with the papers may happen 😅
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 04:50 PM
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Because they are emotional creatures, we man use common sense… chris rock has some good videos about marriage 😂
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/24 11:35 AM
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People here say never leave the house only if domestic violence… but cant imagine staying same house though. I just started the process at least we dont own a home but we rent
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 10:37 PM
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My fear will be the same in my case im waste half of my money savings…
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 03:31 PM
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Exactly my thoughts
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 11:23 AM
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Yep i dont trust her… i just found out she transferred money from her bank account outside country! She can go to hell my only issue is my kid that i raised for 2 years 24/24 and shes only 3
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 01:40 AM
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Im a pro on researching but i have kid that’s the issue is all about child custody and support
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/24 01:10 AM
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My fear too i cant handle till 10k max
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 10:28 PM
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Wish me luck
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 09:05 PM
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Yep you right. I was sahd for 2 years so im fully involved
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 09:05 PM
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Where you live and how much?
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 08:59 PM
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How did she get away with it when makes more than you? At least are you free and piece of mind?
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 07:21 PM
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One kid. Dont trust her… but she makes more money than me though even though she may try to look like she doesn’t
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 07:09 PM
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Dont scare me
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 06:59 PM
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6.5 retainer fee. I have only a kid no ownin a home or busssines
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 06:58 PM
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Or an agreement too which is less likely to happen 😂
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 01:33 PM
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What if we dont own a house but is rented! I wanna divorce my wife we live together and have a toddler. What happens if i move? Cant imagine staying same house for months til divorce ends…
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 11:17 AM
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How can you love someone who didn’t love you?
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/24 01:30 AM
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Same thing here the idea of not seeing my kid is holding me back from divorcing my wife
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 06:26 PM
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You’re saying you are close to divorce your wife but you stay it?
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 12:35 AM
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We can ask for statements bank i guess everything is there even if she tries to transfer those money.. i know she has in her bank!
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/24 10:49 PM
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Home is not ours and i can prove she makes more than me even though she works under the table half her paycheck… how can i stay same home for another year with this person? Lets see but i will make clear not moving till i get an agreement with her
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/24 09:30 PM
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I just read your previous post and give more courage to sign the divorce papers but im struggling to pull the trigger because we have a kid but her can go to hell
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/24 02:31 PM
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My wife is not even a good mother and a good person can you imagine it
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/24 10:42 PM
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You self worth is down and you’re not the same joyful person you were before you meet her🥲
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/24 11:26 AM
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If you play for long hours and is being a problem in the relationship with your wife yes. I know this a group when we as mens protect each other 👌 but you have to ask yourself about this?
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 03:37 PM
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You must have and addiction with videogames…
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 01:08 PM
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It should be personal only to you
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/24 11:07 AM
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Noooo is gonna split in half
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/24 10:21 AM
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Where you live and what was price of retainer fee? Any kids and your goals about child custody?
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/24 05:23 PM
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Im struggling to sign the agreement with my lawyer to start the divorce process and this is what I needed to motivate me…
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/24 03:19 PM
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3 years old
/r/Divorce_Men28/09/24 11:40 AM
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My only issue is my kid… my self im very strong mentally and and dont love my wife anymore due too her attitude
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 09:31 PM
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Do you guys have kids? 22 years damn must be hard i have 8 years
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 06:22 PM
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Be strong 💪
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 05:33 PM
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Do you have a kid? Im to attached to mine and thats the hardest part… what you said are the things im looking forward freedom and finding my self again
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 04:31 PM
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Its not always till they find another man… i never been jealous of my wife i know for sure… is just that shes toxic and emotional unstable and incapable of loving
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 12:48 PM
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What happened with child custody and child support if i can ask? Sooner or later i will move to at least we dont own a house
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/24 11:22 AM
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You’re right, what about the war mens and masculinity? Or you dont believe in this things? I so there are so many indicators
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/24 11:58 AM
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Thats what happens usually when a man is unhappy he goes quit, he is in deep pain.. maybe you or life itself has caused him pain! Talk to him openly what concerns he has for the relationship!
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/24 11:27 AM
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Modern women due to feminism
/r/Divorce_Men21/09/24 01:28 AM
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The Person whose initiates divorce doesn’t mean is his fault… im divorce my wife soon just so you know
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 09:59 PM
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You’re right they never miss it always disappoints us when they speak or do things
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 01:45 PM
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Mine is 3 old, staying for 15 years more looks like hell
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 12:28 PM
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Did you left the house? What happened with child custody and support?
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 12:26 PM
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I feel like i have nothing to lose, only gain and i will be free to rebuild my self again! But will be hard too especially in the beginning
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 12:29 AM
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We still together same house, shes not great as mother… im a great dad! Baby is 3 years old and im the one thinking to divorce my wife for so many reasons
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 12:13 AM
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No kid no problem move on dude. My kid is keeping me pull the trigger
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 10:26 PM
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It takes two people to dance a tango
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 04:47 PM
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You dont know the valie of someone until you lose it
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/24 08:31 PM
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I feel your pain and anger.. i live in nyc too and these western cities really like feminism movement when a woman thinks that the government is in her side and she deserves to be treated like queen… but be cautious especially since you had kids(child support and custody) and maybe you gonna pay alimony for your stay at home wife!
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 11:27 PM
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Thank for the reminder man! Sometimes we have to take some decisions that will break our heart, but save our soul!
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 11:03 PM
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Just search on youtube “toxic wife” “man shouldn’t get married” etc
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 10:00 PM
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Mine has been faithful till now but shes toxic and other things
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 02:03 PM
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Try what? Yes i have kid the only reason stopping me from doing it but i have to… i need to find my self that i lost all this year with this woman
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 02:01 PM
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Did you had kid? How did it go
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 11:55 AM
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Thats my fear but whatever happens happens. She dont want the kid she never stayed with her just gonna use it against me… and i will prove that she has money in her bank and than she works off the books if she dares to do that
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 12:09 AM
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Whats really court see especially to child custody? Is 50/50 by default? I can prove that i raised my baby for 2 years and still after work my life revolves around her… what about payment we both have same paycheck.. she get payed cash too wayyyy more
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 10:51 PM
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I just ordered on amazon. Did the court listen to it and do they translate it because we don’t speak English in home
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 09:58 PM
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Everyone here says that and must be something true in this and i will not move… in any case i will have my phone ready for recording in case she try to provoke me
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 09:40 PM
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I will use a credit card but wanna know if i will pay more and how much! But anyway no more turning back…
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 09:39 PM
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How much did it go in total brother? Did you have child?
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 08:42 PM
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Damn🥲. In divorce petition what do they write? What facts are importants to be satisfied with the result?
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 08:42 PM
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Thank you. So what will retainer consist? That those money are gone moment i pay just to start the case, or those money will be used by my lawyer when they will proceed with next steps in the future?
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 08:12 PM
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What city? That was your total? Was your case easy?
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 07:51 PM
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Can you explain whats a retainer exactly, i read some information on google… how much than that can i pay with just a kid and no assets. How much did you pay
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 07:31 PM
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Child is 3 years old and i was sahd for two years. We both works but she makes more than me unofficially. She will fight me and use the baby against me i think… dont knlw if I should stay in the same house(rented no assets) or move before it gets ugly. Her stupid father lives with us too. 10k total for a divorce ok, but more than that will destroy me…
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 06:52 PM
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All this high costs make me wanna stay married…🥲
/r/Divorce_Men15/09/24 02:05 AM
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So you strongly suggest till divorce is over or at least if i get a marital agreement? Is gonna be hard but for my baby im willing to do everything
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 09:11 PM
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I understand and thank you but what if things escalates and she throws tantrums 😂 and false DM against me! One of her parent live with and i must say the alt we rent we dont have assets thank you
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 09:09 PM
1

So i stay in the house till the divorce is officially or till false DV? Two lawyers told me already i can move “no problem”…🥲
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 03:21 PM
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Go for it man… if you can prove it why not or at least be the custodial parent. I thought my wife was the worst…
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 10:29 PM
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Not there yet but im scared just the thought of it🥹
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/24 12:05 AM
5

Google it maybe can do it yourself
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 11:20 PM
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You’re saying stay in the apt till the divorce is official?! is gonna be hard but im try you know how this toxic woman are nowdays😅 Her father stay with us too for the moment taking some care for the baby
/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 04:12 PM
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What the law says in nyc for parenting time before divorce happen? If you know thnx
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 09:13 PM
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🥹
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 09:12 PM
1

But thats not out house though and i know it may hurt in child custody but i can prove that i raised her and still stay with her after work and always be. You think stay home and start the papers and give her the surprise when she gets them😂?
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 08:52 PM
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Not op but your comment gives me courage but i have a kid the only one that’s stopping me🥹
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 08:12 PM
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Not OP but I haven’t started the divorce process and i wanna move from our rented apt and find something near since we have a kid that is my everything… whats your opinion thank you we have no assets and separated accounts both works
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 08:10 PM
1

Didnt tell but i was sahd for 2 years and my kid is my everything 🥹 the mother is awful but my goal is 50/50 with no child support since she makes way more than me… my issue is since the divorce is gonna take 1 year i know i will not see my kid 24/24 and thats kills me…
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 08:07 PM
1

What if she doesn’t agree for matrimonial agreement? Im stuck i wanna find and rent an apt close my kid at least
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/24 07:47 PM
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Peace of mind has no price… is gonna be hard before it gets easy… but what the f*ck do i know since im still married and afraid to pull the trigger!😂 at least your wife is agreeable … my only fear is that i will not see my kid frequently but wife can go to hell
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 10:29 PM
1

How can you stay under same roof? Im planning to move from our rented apt….
/r/Divorce_Men06/09/24 11:22 AM
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Haven’t started the process yet… total she makes 10k monthly(including cash) and me 4k before taxes… we in nyc which is pretty much same as cal😂 yep one kid ❤️
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 08:12 PM
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Nice one😂
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 07:13 PM
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Actually She has triple on her bank account of what i have in my bank account thats the only advantage of mine in the future that i can use and that i was sahd for two years if that counts for child custody
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 07:12 PM
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Yes the money are in her bank anc can prove that she has more than me even is she tries to transfer those money the statements will show it
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 04:40 PM
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Already have a appointment for free consultation with an lawyer. I hooe things doesn’t get bad I just want 50/50 child custody and her toxic behavior out of my life
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 04:39 PM
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If shes asking me for child support than i will threaten her or ask for statements(which shows thats he has more money than me) through my lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 04:26 PM
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One question: when me wife works and take most of her wage off the books, lets say 50% paycheck and 50% cash!!! how do i prove it that she makes more than me? By bank statements?!
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 04:21 PM
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One question: when me wife works and take most of her wage off the books, lets say 50% paycheck and 50% cash!!! how do i prove it that she makes more than me? By bank statements?!
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 04:20 PM
1

One question: when me wife works and take most of her wage off the books, lets say 50% paycheck and 50% cash!!! how do i prove it that she makes more than me? By bank statements?!
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 04:20 PM
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One question: when me wife works and take most of her wage off the books, lets say 50% paycheck and 50% cash!!! how do i prove it that she makes more than me? By bank statements?!
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/24 04:20 PM
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If i was my home yeah but we rent the apt nothing we own but im glad for you. I will not move till i get an agreement
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 10:51 PM
2

Im working now though… half of her wage is off books and she said that i will pay😂 threatening me🤣
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 10:40 AM
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🥹👏
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 01:30 AM
1

Did you leave the house? Do you have kids and what happened?
/r/Divorce_Men04/09/24 12:43 AM
1

Dont think she will move because the pay for the rent is not that high… my concern is that i will not see my baby so much during this time even though i was the one raising her and i hope we reach a marital agreement because is gonna be expensive to pay the lawyer for uncontested divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/24 09:50 PM
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I really like this quote. But for those who thinks to divorce their wife(including me)and haven’t find the gut to do it: sometimes you have to take a decision that will break your heart, but will save your soul!
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/24 06:11 PM
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If they are in your name before marriage should be your after divorce too… thats the law I believe. But yeah dont marry her without a prenup. No love today especially in western cities
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/24 01:12 PM
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Nothing wrong about initiating a divorce. Im gonna be the one because cant live anymore with a toxic ungrateful wife
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 03:30 PM
1

If your wife agrees and make the process soft thats a big big win! I haven’t started the process yet but thats my only concern… except that i wont see my baby all time🥲
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 03:26 PM
1

She makes more than me though even though her paycheck show way less… so if she wanna fight this than im ready! I wanna 50/50 child custody, she can keep her money i dont want her money… i just want my life back! If she doesn’t agree… than let there be fight! I raised my baby as a sahd…
/r/Divorce_Men20/08/24 11:52 AM
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Usually the mam works and the woman stays home, but my case is that I stayed home for 2 years 24/24 to raise my baby and i still do after work… is she becomes a devil and wanna fight than lets fight!if she doesn’t accept an uncontested divorce than i will become an angry hulk😁
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/24 04:29 AM
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Like a separation agreement? I really dont wanna live and see her face anymore… what the worst can happen if i move and whats the best for me like i will get the peace of mind! But i know it will get worse before it gets better
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/24 07:34 PM
2

Keep dhe fight 💪 your at the other side of hell
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 12:57 AM
2

Do you still live together or you moved from the house? Thats my only dilemma before i start the process of divorcing my toxic wife… and the idea that im not gonna see my baby as much if i move but if i stay the situation will get worse…
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/24 12:23 AM
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Yes and she hates them without no reason… thats top reason i will divorce her in the near future
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 09:26 AM
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Thank you its gonna be hard but let see my name is on the rent so yeah no way she can take me out.. even with false accusation!!
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/24 12:52 AM
1

So im good though cant live without my baby but is a little sacrifice i have to do it(if i do it)…
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/24 12:51 AM
1

New York! I want 50/50 with agreement if she doesn’t accept than “war it be”…
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/24 12:49 AM
1

Abandoned?! I understand you but actually I raised her 24/24 and still do…. I can prove it
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/24 07:39 PM
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We dont own the house we pay the rent… i want my baby to stay in this apartment with my wife in it and her parents (in the future) i feel more safe this way if they are there too… i just want 50/50 child custody and dont want to look like i abandoned house. Cant stay same home with a person you dont love anymore… and cant take the first step if we stay together my opinion
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/24 05:31 PM
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🥲🥲🥲 stay strong and shine
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/24 07:13 PM
1

Pls elaborate
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 11:57 AM
2

Question: did you have to leave the house?! If so what effect has in your divorce?
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/24 10:57 PM
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Im not there yet at your position, but once im out of the house im not going back… i wish i just take the first step! Is a trap by her
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/24 08:33 PM
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Yeah i think she has childhood trauma and i blame her parents their sucks too ignorants… i find my self at this song https://youtu.be/tHxip2x-PLc?si=On3hhPwtRNcP4xEw
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/24 01:04 AM
3

2 person that used to love together being the greatest enemy is the unimaginable how things goes and how these women are like crazy when you want to escape from them…
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/24 12:50 AM
3

Damn, i wanna do the same but people here say don’t leave the house…
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/24 11:16 PM
3

Look same like my wife and you look like me
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/24 09:22 PM
1

Did you have to live the house during the process or stayed same house? We live in a rented apartment
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/24 09:22 PM
1

You know how these woman act like crazy on these things… being an emotional abusive and turning to a victim and makine the “good husband” being “the bad one”… but everyone knows who am i what sacrifices have done for my family the truth always win in the end! Thnx I will not back down no more being used and not respected and appreciated
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 12:25 PM
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What the worse can happen? I can proof that baby was raised by me and wife get paid more than me… i want 50/50 if shes not ok I'm fight with my all power
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 11:30 AM
1

What if cant stay same house she says get out “my house”… but our names are both on the contract we signed, dont want fights with her just want peace… and her father live with us for some month!
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 11:08 AM
0

I imagined that day to be my relief day… finally to be happy again and you say me “im exhausted”. Im still married by the way… but in my mind the decision has been made!
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/24 12:50 AM
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Just dont marry but have fun
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/24 07:26 PM
2

Same situation here if your wife makes mire money than us than were fucked
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/24 04:40 PM
1

Thats how much bad it gets on the other side of separation?! Look like my life gonna depend on it😅🥲
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 10:34 PM
1

I was till 6 month ago now i work full time and take care of my baby for the rest… and captain evil aka my wife has more money than me! But what if i cant stay same home… i feel like i have missed my freedom all this years and not being appreciated or respected! But yeah financially this seems good staying home but till when🥲 and on top of that her father is staying with us and i have to listen to his ignorance everyday
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 06:40 PM
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What happens if i want to divorce but i was a sahd for 2 years meanwhile my wife was working and bringing the money. Now we both works but she makes more than me?! Baby is 2.5 years old and we live in nyc! What are my chances? Thnx And yes we have separated accounts she has more than me even though she says is money family😂
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/24 02:06 PM
2

Sameeee situation
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/24 02:39 PM
0

I feel you man… thats what happen when you are a good hearted person🥹! If you dont have kids or wealth nothing to worry about… if god knows your truth be confident in who you are
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/24 01:24 PM
1

Steve trevino just check it out
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 02:22 PM
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She’s a narcissist definitely just like my wife
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/24 12:39 AM
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I know my co-suffer friend, i can see it in my mind already i have decided just waiting for the time…
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/24 09:55 PM
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You have similar story like me with the difference that i still dont have the courage to divorce due too my fear of who's gonna take care of my baby if im not there….
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/24 11:38 AM
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