For you that stared the divorce process, especially the one that had kids!

jimsmythee · 2024-10-20T14:12:31+00:00

I tried that for years. To stay with the now exwife for the sake of the kids because they were little. No infidelity, just she has addiction problems to pills and financial problems due to her pill popping disasters.

Last straw? Too many to count. So I grit my teeth filed and left her in the dust.

Best thing I ever did for the sake of me and the kids.

Jeep-Stingrey · 2024-10-19T23:20:03+00:00

If your saying your kid is number one then you stay no matter how much it stinks, when we have kids we choose to put ourselves last and that does not change just because we are not treated good or loved back, we made vows and we need to stand behind them. If she wants to leave then let her but you stand

CulturedGentleman921 · 2024-10-19T16:54:40+00:00

Did she cheat on you?

AssistantActive9529 · 2024-10-19T01:42:09+00:00

It feels good once you’ve started the process. It took me two days to complete everything because my emotions were in the way, but as soon as she had her tantrum today, it felt good knowing that she is going to get served next week and I’m out of the house.

MR-Ozmidnight · 2024-10-18T23:40:12+00:00

"Look, if you're thinking this way, I'm sure it's over for you. I would recommend reading the following books: "Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life," "Doing the 180," and "Grey Rocking." They give you insight into how people react during divorces, and you can find them on the web. Be the best dad you can be and make your children your centre of attention. And remember, you have friends here who have been through what you are going through now. Good luck, and feel free to ask if you have any questions."

Komark10 · 2024-10-18T23:30:37+00:00

If there is no love or respect left then go for it. Otherwise you’re just kicking the problem down the road. For me, I kept pushing for 19yrs thinking it will work but instead we kept growing apart and no there is no love or respect left. Keep good relationship with your child. I wish I could have done better.

Ill_Personality_5704 · 2024-10-18T21:06:13+00:00

Bro file the divorce ASAP and record everything. See my post "there is hope". I did the same thing you were doing 2 months ago...and damn...

Title	For you that stared the divorce process, especially the one that had kids!
Author	Glittering-Spell-446
Upvotes	11
Comments	20
Date	October 18, 2024 8:37 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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