so my STBX filed for a PO asking for a lifetime one for her and until the kids turn 18, they’re young (6yo and 18mos). simultaneously, she filed for divorce asking for step up supervision or some shit. basically saying she’s okay with me getting the kids as long as I complete some courses, get drug tested, etc etc. firstly, this is some baby back bullshit. I’m an everyday dad, I own the morning routine for the girls by myself, I coach my oldest’s basketball team, I volunteer at the school, etc etc. my issue is her asks are completely contradicting. anybody got any experience with this? we’ve deposed her and locked her into the “he shouldn’t see the kids until they’re 18” bullshit. so we plan to impeach her in court. will a judge realize that she’s using the PO as leverage in custody?

btw, no police records, no medical reports, no witnesses of the alleged abuse, etc etc. she also attempted to unalive herself with the kids in the house 4 months before she filed. she’s been admitted to a mental facility, she took a 4 month mental health break from work last year and is on psych meds.