Less than two weeks away. Its only been about 7 months since I found out about 7 years of her lying about finances and racking up a lot of debt. That was about half of our marriage.

We didn’t have a dead bedroom and she never cheated. But Im not sure I can ever trust her again. Especially after all the things that happened since I moved out.

There are plenty of other issues with both of us, this is just the deal breaker. But the struggling we are both already having to do to get by and the thought that I will have no one to really rely on is difficult. I can’t help but feel like I am making a mistake.

But my therapist keeps telling me to look at the whole picture of our relationship and everything thats happened and then it becomes hard to stay and say everything is going to be alright. Has anyone initiated the divorce and regretted it afterwards?