Guys, what really happens if let’s say you spend your tax return on yourself whilst divorce is ongoing. Say you got $3k back in taxes and you spent it on yourself like clothes, shoes etc…during discovery will this count as a violation and judge will order you to pay half back? My struggle is I know stbxw will certainly spend her money including tax returns on herself and will prob say they needed to etc. Been keeping all my money in my account since I don’t want any judge saying oh I overspent etc and will order me to pay back money to stbxw. How did yall go about spending when divorce was still ongoing. Even my bonuses I’ve not spent a dime on myself just keeping all these monies in my account for them to take. Sucks but just trying to do the right thing. I’m in Texas by the way…share your experience and how did the judge see this spending?