married to a woman 6 years this October. No kids, i have a car (doesn't run) and we share another. We rent an apartment and also have a cat. Sex life is ZERO, she acts like a spoiled child (she'll even admit that). She's constantly screaming at other cars when we're on the road, yells at the cat, at me, and complains about work incessantly. I've tried talking and it ends up in an argument. we tried couples therapy, no help at all.    Im pretty certain Im gonna file for divorce, just dont know when. I can get legal help, my work has legal insurance for such things. She's gonna go nuclear. But the prospect of seeing other people and dating casually seems refreshing and what i need. Im not looking forward to the fallout of telling her this. or the courts. or the arguments. or starting over from scratch. I just need some advice from people who've been there and moral support.