Hey good ppl. I’m really struggling to understand what the ffff is going on. I was married for almost 14 years. Two kids, 12 and 6. I’m very wealthy, Very wealthy. She checked out for 45k and gave me full custody of my daughters. I kept everything including my retirement accts, checking, savings,cds etc. she was the one to ask for a divorce not me. I tried everything to not go through this but she refused. The judge signed on everything 3 weeks ago and now I’m almost a millionaire, well I will be in one or two years. Judge gave get 90 days to leave. But why the fuck someone ask for divorce and still have sex with me? I’m sooo confused. I certainly don’t wanna be married any longer bcs I’ve lost trust. But whyyy? I don’t understand. And I’m a man I like sex. So I’m having trouble saying no. She put me through unnecessary things like divorce and stress , what should I do? I have two kids and she’s still carrying for them when I’m at work at night. I don’t know what to do anymore. Why would a woman do this and still have sex with me some times twice not even once a day. I’ve been very emotional, stressed, anxious, worried about everything. I’m financially stable and have been debt free since I was 25. My credit score is 828 and able to do so much. I speak 4 languages. I’m level two sommelier hoping to be a master one day. I have an associate degree in education, it’s not a lot but something. I’m 42. I own my, house, cars free of mortgage and car notes. I’m an investor in the Vtsax and other funds. I have been through an earthquake, a war, 3 immigration camps one lasted 8 years, and a divorce. This divorce has been the worst for me. Even though I’ve kept 95 percent of my wealth I’m still shocked and don’t know what to do. I’m also a target to other females bcs as u know there r sooo much fishing and stuff going on. These dating apps r not for me at all. I’m all over the place I know. I’m sorry