My [30m] soon to be ex wife[31] and have been separated for about a month now. I asked for the separation and the divorce. As it comes closer I can't help but to wonder if this is the best move. My friends have told me without explicitly telling me that this is the correct choice. Why then, am I so hesitant to pull the trigger.

The motives for the divorce is her lack of libido and her very "my way or the highway" mentality. I feel like one of those can be fixed. So the real question is if lack of sex is a good enough reason to go through with a divorce?

I just keep thinking about our good times. How much she has been there for me. Sometimes I just want to call her and talk to her.