Going through separation for some time now. Still living on the same home, 4 year old together. We agreed to have him alternate between two households every 2-3 days, and on 50/50 custody and parenting time. We've been doing that for some time now (although in the same home) and I don't see anything wrong with it. Now she says she wants to do the same but he sleeps at her home because 'it can be bad for him to switch homes all the time'.

I make more money than her. Not sure what her true intentions are but I'm pretty sure she has consulted with her lawyer and they're are trying to plant some trick on me where she has leverage over custody later.

I'm pretty firm on not accepting this but I'm not able to see how this plays out. Is it about to get ugly? Is it a money grab or some different game she's thinking about? I can talk to my lawyer but I think they love to sweet talk to you and promise everything will be okay (and collect their cheque)