I was officially divorced almost 2 years ago. It has been worse than anything else i have encountered so far. It has been challenging and i am still learning to cope with many things that have developed ever since the divorce happened. I dont have many friends but have a good relationship with my brothers and cousins. I wish i could have someone to talk about stuff like this i am about to tell you guys. My younger brother has always been kind of a slacker but have always had the same opportunities as me, its not my fault he didnt took them. I feel he has always resented me a little for going to a better college, going on a student exchange program abroad, having better cars, wedding, etc … if he is, then i am not responsible for his feelings. We both are dads with daugthers just about the same age, he gets mad whenever his girl cries, wheter its for aarguments between girls for toys, or just whatever he doesnt tolerate her girl crying, which she does a lot imo. Just last week he and his daugther came with me to dropoff my girls, but my niece took a toy my oldest daughter brought with her at the pickup, and was looking forward to take it back home with her. When i was about to get her down from the car, she noticed her cousin had that toy and the crying began on both parts. I just asked my brother for the toy and he gave back my girls toy with a grudge and never spoke a word after. I tried calling him a couple times after but he didnt answer. He is still upset about it, but i feel there’s nothing i should apologize to him for, and i even reached out to him. I feel bad because my dad didnt speak to his brother for 20 years and i am sure he could go on like this for much longer. I dont think i am the best brother, but i have tried to be there on every special occasion for him and his family, even at the expense of having a fight with the exwife, what bother me the most is that most of the problems i had with my exwife where originated from a fight where i sided with my brother pre wedding. So now i have no brother and no wife. I dont think i should reach out again, and even if i did, he wouldnt change his mindset. Now i dont want to see him at family reunions, or a t my parents house. Its akward and i dont feel good to be treated with hipocrisy. But, well, thanks for reading.