I’ve found this community very supportive and a big help over the past few months. I wanted to give an update on my situation.

I’ve been separated for a few months but still living in the same house with the ex. We have two young kids and it’s been tough. I’ve had the mother-in-law with us most of the time too while my family are on the other side of the world. That’s been fun. She has helped with kids and cooking but seeing them laugh and have fun while I’m scrambling to get organized has been annoying.

Yesterday my ex finally got the job she needed so we’re pulling the trigger on getting the house sold. Will be listed next week and I’m looking forward to getting outta there.

On a personal note, I’ve started to realize I’m mostly sad for the kids and for losing a great house. I lost that family dream I had I guess. I am regretful that our relationship deteriorated but my ex isn’t who I married and I’m ready to move on.

Speaking of which, I did recently meet somebody who I really connected with. I’m really excited to see where that goes.

So, it’s been a rollercoaster for sure and I know it’s still early days for me. I’m proud of how I’ve got through things so far. And for anybody in the really early days, stay strong. It gets better.