I just wanted to say a quick thank you. I’m about 10 weeks into a separation and this group has provided a lot of support. I’ve vented a lot (maybe too much) to friends and family but it’s nice to have this group too because all of you can relate.

Mine was textbook “walkaway wife”. At first we held each other and said we can separate with love. Now I am an alcoholic, emotionally immature manipulator. It’s like she forgot everything good in 22 years together.

I see some light though. House is about to go up for sale and I think I can be out of there in month. I keep taking those gut punches and moving on. Yesterday I found out the name of the guy she at least had an emotional affair with and has seen since our separation. Our 17 year anniversary would be on Sunday. That might be rough.

But the wife I knew from that time is gone. Time to be there for my kids and get back to the real me. This community is making easier. So thank you.