I last saw my two daughters 10 years ago. I am not playing the victim but nobody is prepared to meet with me and have their say or explain why. My daughters are 32 and 29 respectively. I got divorced when they were 7 and 3. It was traumatic as it is for all of us who have been through it. My ex had an affair which has lasted 26 years since our divorce in 1998. My daughters and I had wonderful relationships up until 10 years ago. They loved me and I, them, unconditionally. I remarried in 2015. They met with me and were happy for me and even volunteered to make my wedding cake. I got a message, obviously written by my ex.. Due to it being so perfectly compiled, that they would not be attending. My 2nd wife passed away in 2023 and I received messages of condolences from my ex and eldest daughter.. No calls. Since then, all have blocked me... Even though I only tried to call my youngest daughter once... To find out how she was. She produced a grandson out of wedlock 10 years ago. I found out through friends of friends that another child was on the way, 2 weeks ago. I know nothing. I seek advice, not pity. So, I have 2 grandchildren out there who don't know I'm their grandfather.

I choose to protect my grandchildren at all costs from any hurt.

What do I do?