Funny Moment

Odd-Yoghurt1869 · 2024-05-22T16:38:06+00:00

So much truth in here.

rhett342 · 2024-05-22T07:49:14+00:00

I don't knownif my ex was physically cheating or not but it doesn't matter because she was definitely having an emotional affair. That was her choice. Even with all that, I still wanted to work things out because divorce was never an option for me. When I said "until death do us part," I meant it. Unfortunately, she didn't.

I was going through some old emails looking for something that had nothing to do with her and saw one from her that I had never read that was from a few months ago. She was complaining about how she needed money and how hard and bad her life was going. I don't know if she was trying to make me feel bad or amused but I just ignored it.

She only finished her degree because I kept bugging her to do it. She had a business administration degree but just didn't like working stressful jobs so she'd go from one crappy job or tenp job to another and never even tried to build a career. I did have periods where I was unemployed but we always had food and place to stay. Not only that but I've always made pretty good money when I was working. I never liked stress at work either but I put up with it so I could support my family. Whether it was running an IT department in my late 20's or working as a nurse from mid 30's until now in my mid 40's. I've literally got people's lives in my hands when I'm at work. I try to keep people alive no matter how hard they keep trying to die on me. I don't have any patients directly dependent on me since I've moved into management but now, every evening, I'm the one that has to keep an entire building running. Anytime something really goes south with a patient, I'm the one who has to tell everyone else what to do. I've got 100 patients relying on me to make sure everything is going OK. When somebody does die, I have to be the one to call their family and tell them. That can be a really fucking stressful job.

I do make pretty good money doing what I do but I'm highly trained, skilled, experienced, and can keep track of multiple things at once. I can talk down an angry patient or family member. I can run a code when someone is crashing. Anybody who can do this stuff and is actually willing to do it should be paid well. My ex doesn't care about all that. She just sees me making good money and is pissed that the life that she chose isn't going well. Yes, I'm buying her out of the house and she's living in a mobile home. I just bought a nice new TV and sound system. I've got a highly skilled and stressful job to pay for all of that and I work a ton of overtime for it too. The last I heard, she's working a part-time temp job opening mail for the IRS. WTF does she expect?

Potential_Item610 · 2024-05-22T05:05:50+00:00

Opera non verba.

Gattsama · 2024-05-22T03:17:48+00:00

You have to understand that most women do NOT speak to communicate knowledge, information, or ideas. Instead, they use words like a Harry Potter magic spell to accomplish an agenda.

'Levitatum noweightus' = objects float

'You are controlling. I needed to find myself. He was financially abusive. He was emotionally abusive. You are selfish.' = I want things my way with no consequences.

Just ignore everything they say, and instead look only at their actions. If you interact with these types of women only based on actions, everything will make sense. Their words are meaningless because they will say anything and everything that they think will accomplish their goal.

This is why they can say you are the love of their life, a horrible person, a great father, a horrible husband, a good provider, and broke; all at the same time. Haven't found the right spell yet :)

Title	Funny Moment
Author	Informal_String_2549
Upvotes	15
Comments	9
Date	May 22, 2024 2:00 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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