Well, I'm in the beginning stages or my divorce. Me (37M) and my wife (36F) are already separated and living apart. We had been married for 12 years and together for 15years. Moving out of the house was one of the hardest things I have ever done. By the time I moved it, it was like my life with her never existed. Now we are in the process of her refinancing the house so she can keep it. In the mean time, I'm doing everything I can to keep my mental health up. I'm exercising almost daily, I journal, play guitar, go for bike rides, etc. But I'm struggling with finding my place in the world. Because of the way our relationship was, I have been completely isolated the entire 6 years I have lived here, so I'm just now trying to make friends. Finally got the bank accounts separated, and the phones separated. I can now get some peace of mind because I no longer see those bank statements. I stumbled across her profile on one of the dating apps and it hurt like hell. It just burned me bad to know what she is up to, while I'm at home struggling to just get by. Just another reaffirming instance that I'm doing the right thing. I just want this to be done.