I truly don't understand. Me and my wife are divorcing house is going on the market Tuesday. Some how I am being painted as this huge piece of crap narcissistic man to everyone in the city? I have been hit had stuff thrown at me and all am I perfect no! Absolutely not. I've threatened divorce. Said my fair share of names and stuff but why are people looking at me like I'm scum of the earth? I take care of the 2 kids I have custody of and mine and my wifes daughter and our soon to be son. Luke what am I doing wrong????

We had issues when I deployed. Tried counseling for a year and a half. Lawyer told me to separate finances I did I moved my checks to my separate account out of the joint she's going back to work soon. But people are looking at it as I am withholding money from my soon to be pregnant ex wife. Idk how much more of this I can take. I have always made sure everyone is taken care of.

I was always the bad guy throughout the marriage to her bc I wanted alone time. Or she had took my other 2 children to school while I had to work. I had my fair share of insecurities flaws in the beginning. I went to counseling and changed for her more than anyone in life.

I remade social media after being off of it to keep up with people from my job I am leaving due to them closing and people are texting my STBXW that I'm adding this person and stuff. I just deleted it again.

How can I learn to keep pushing forward if people just continue to hate on my person?

I'm just at complete loss with why I'm just getting crapped on by everyone.