I am a 39-year-old software engineer. I was laid off a year ago and haven't been able to land a job despite countless efforts. I was married to a doctor who has a certain lifestyle that I couldn't afford and financed through debt. During the period I was unemployed, I kept giving her a monthly allowance because she was not working until last month. We can't have kids naturally due to my high sperm defect rate. I couldn't afford the artificial conception procedure, so we kept postponing having kids until I found a new job. Last week, I had an argument with my wife and she left me. I couldn't convince her to come back to me, and we are divorcing now. So now, I am left with no job, no money, heavy debt, no kids, and now no wife.