I need help in this aspect we are at the early stages of divorce im stuck in denial and grief and she is so agitated with me trying to get her to back out of the divorce ive cried and came up with plenty of therapeutic ways. She said she would give another shot about a year ago and she just pulled the rug out from under me. We've been married for almost 10 years 4 kids together we both started with nothing and build something I just don't know how to give up on. She was supposed to be my forever and now she's fading from me. I have done lots of wrong in the almost 13yrs together and I accept the consequences for that but seems very unfair she sees how much ive grown and how far ive come and yet she just keeps telling me it's to late. Why is there a timeline for love and growth. Damn man it's a struggle tearing up just putting text on reddit