Don't worry, this is a good thing. It used to bother me that she was going out several times a week, leaving me at home with the kid, while she cultivated new romance(s) and got a new social life she suddenly has plenty of time for.

I was jealous (I suppose I hope for the same still) but my emotional investment in her is near zero. My emotional investment in her is that of a casual acquaintance and nothing more. I am indifferent about her personal life.

She's still living here and custody has not been decided (awaiting court) but I really am looking forward to being on my own. And I hope I get full custody. Soon!

(As I understand her relative lack of parenting time will go to my favor for custody. Hope so!)

I joined tinder and am getting some responses, which is nice. I'm not really ready to date but I've been up front about that. Met a woman in the exact same situation, too.

This is progress.