Hey gents, it's a tough time of the year for all of us, especially those handling a fractured or fracturing family.

Just remember, it's all transitory, and you'll land in a much better place than you started. That's why we go through this mess. There is light on the other side!

Post or pm if you need to chat. Lots of great dudes here with solid experience (way more than me).

Me? I'll be having a hopefully pleasant but awkward time with the kid and stbx and some of my family. We'll do our best for the kiddos sake.

Still going to suck of course.

Oh also, I got the snip the other day. Merry Christmas to my testicles!