I was in a relationship for 8 years with a woman who I thought was my soulmate. We built a life together, met in college and for a long time everything was going great. We had problems fights yelling you know how things go but it wasn’t spelling we couldn’t solve.

A year ago I stopped working as much and she took on everything. Said it was fine that was bs btw. I’ve been self employed for 5 years no vacation so I just was working on some side projects and I had paid a lot of stuff for her to do when she wanted to do in life. Her jobs before the most recent one didn’t pay good at all but I didn’t care.

And than 6 months ago everything changes. She started telling me she doesn’t see a future, I’m trying a ton what point to find clients make things work and the fights are getting worse.

Than in the end of July she tells me she’s moving out and I tried so hard to fix it and she just said yeah to make it easier for her. But had no intention at all so I made so much effort to change and it didn’t matter and at that time I guess she stared talking some other dude.

I lost everting a great apartment, a best friend, still looking for work, and my confidence has been shattered. I have a friend who let me stay with him and rent a place and that’s prolly the only good thing everything else has been a nightmare. And even after I’m trying to repair and she has no interest and wants nothing to do to me and just letting me down nicely even though it’s just all been a game.

I changed so much of myself for this woman and never tried so hard to please someone in my life. And it all failed. And I’m left with nothing. If you’re going through this, I feel for you I never would wish this on anyone.

Please don’t ever stop being who you are for people and watch how much you care or give.