I didn't want to get a lawyer because I didn't want to fight I didn't want to make things worse. She took everything and is now threatening to take visitation of my son away after removing any means to support him. She displays deeply emotionally abusive tendencies is extremely manipulative to the point her family doesn't realize they are being used by her very narcissistic. Any time I stood up for myself, disagreed, simply thought differently or had a different perspective it was another nail in the coffin. I used to just think she was sick she had my sympathy when she acted the way she did. Now she strips more and more away from me and I think I may have just fallen in love with a bad person. If I am not allowed to stabilize and rebuild for my sons future, I can't help but wonder what the point is what's left why keep going. I didn't get married to her by accident and I didn't have a child with her by accident. Now I can either continue to be controlled and manipulated by her or not have my son in my life.