Along with believing she'd remain civil over the divorce. I gave up a single family home to be closer to my kid, I had a room in the new area lost it. I gave up a decent paying job that I worked hard at with pride for my family and crew, I know am a assistant manager at a Sonic. I am now looking at extended stay hotels grasping at straws to establish a place stable enough for my child to visit. I feel like I've lost all dignity. How far back did you have to climb to got back to normal or stable or worthwhile?