Around 50k in legal fees and another 20k in child mediation and I paid 20k for her legal fees and over 20k a month on temporary spousal and of course she tried the silver bullet on me. She finally signed the child custody which gives me 50/50 after an escalation period and allows for vacation requests. I read the custody documents and fed it into every ai app for an opinion and long story short it says I can do vacations right now which she is refusing. She says we need to wait for the escalation for next 6 months before any vacations even though it specifically gives examples of how vacations are handled during escalation…

Then she gives the cold answer of talk to my lawyer and I need another 30k in legal fees and this is all after she purchased a ton of random stuff and went on lavish trips with our child. This system is so broken.

Just need to keep my chin up and keep hitting the weights and focus on kid and work but wanted to vent to some friendly strangers online. I guess the silver lining is I’m getting ripped and she’s going bald hahaha