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Modification of spousal maintenance

bobcat22_89

September 21, 2022

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Title	Modification of spousal maintenance
Author	bobcat22_89
Upvotes	5
Comments	11
Date	September 21, 2022 6:17 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/Divorce_Men/comments/xjwu7r/modification_of_spousal_maintenance/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/Divorce_Men/modification-of-spousal-maintenance.1132262 https://theredarchive.com/post/1132262

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[–]SnooChipmunks8506 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]bobcat22_89[S] 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

[–]derelictherds 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I was able to terminate alimony a few months after my ex shacked up with a boyfriend. My decree included cohabitation as a condition for ending alimony. All said and done this involved my lawyer, a private investigator, and a bit of online research/data collection. The PI provided ~2 months of scheduled dedicated surveillance and captured some pretty damning video evidence via creative pretexting/social engineering. Your biggest challenge will be proving cohabitation...some states stick with the dictionary definition of cohabitation while others put their own spin on the word - often adding a financial component. I'm lucky because the state where I divorced defines it simply as "to live together as or as if a married couple" and doesn't give a shit about financial entanglements, etc. I have no idea how alimony works in AZ but IMO your case is definitely worth a 30 minute conversation with a lawyer.

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