Think about it... Food is essential to our survival. As a result, nature has made it so we release dopamine and receive pleasure when we eat food especially ones that taste good. This is to drive us to do a task that quite literally is boring which is grabbing food and chewing it until it becomes a mush and then swallowing it. Once again, remove the pleasures of taste and the urge we get from hunger hormones and you see how boring the task would be.

Now look at sex… Sexual intercourse is the single most important thing to our species. Without it, we’d be extinct. It is an act where two people of the opposite gender get together and essentially rub and thrust each other until bodily fluids containing genetic material are exchanged.

Remove the pleasure component from sex and it seems like a pretty stupid and boring act to perform. This is why nature made it pleasurable… And on top of that, made the male undergo a much stronger drive (testosterone) to receive this pleasure. This is to compensate the male for dealing with the female long enough to finally get this feeling of pleasure.

It’s as if nature knows we wouldn’t tolerate each other at all if sex wasn’t pleasurable. There would simply be no drive or reward for the pursuit. And quite frankly, all of us men pursue women because of our biological urge to want to have sex. Most children are created because two people wanted to experience the pleasures of sex and the consequence of that is an offspring. The amount of parents that actually planned to have a kid is a very, very small percentage. Nature is amazing and understood all of this since the dawn of time.

You wouldn’t work your job if it didn’t pay the bills. You wouldn’t eat food if it didn’t have any taste and there wasn’t a hormone forcing you eat. You wouldn’t have sex… if it wasn’t pleasurable.