One Question for Currently Separated or Divorcing Guys.

nerves76 · 2019-01-02T15:40:10+00:00

Don’t move out of the family house until divorce is final is a good one.

dday_throwaway3 · 2019-01-02T20:02:57+00:00

lemmingsrevenge · 2019-01-02T19:38:32+00:00

Communicate only in written form. Learn to not let your emotions dictate your actions and always think before you act.

JohnnyMnemo · 2019-01-02T18:18:01+00:00

Don't take advice from her attorney. Get your own, and your own impartial friends, to calibrate you on what's true.

josvaesen · 2019-01-02T15:33:17+00:00

Go to r/divorce

Bognin · 2019-01-02T21:27:34+00:00

You could leave the house if you are able to get her to sign a document which spells out some important facts, that you are both agreeing to separate, that you are looking for joint custody, any support payments etc. Problem is that women are not willing to agree to things. It's important to understand that if there is conflict and claims of abuse etc, custody will not be shared, and it becomes a winner take all war that will cost you both a boatload.

G3n3r1cc0unt · 2019-01-02T22:15:59+00:00

I’m going through a divorce now and would say that if it isn’t a big deal, don’t make it a big deal. You can always buy a new couch or TV. If you have kids, it’s important that they see you both divorce on good terms. Otherwise, they may want to lash out because they see you two fighting.

Title	One Question for Currently Separated or Divorcing Guys.
Author	JAlfaMais
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	January 2, 2019 3:16 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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