This past Friday my stbxw AP made a last minute plan to take stbxw out to say farewell to a co-worker who got laid off. Friday is my stbxw day to have the kids so instead of canceling that date with AP she called me to manipulate me to watch the kids and I pretty much said no. So she had her mom come up last minute to watch the kids.

Anyways my mother in law gets there and calls me immediately telling me my son is breathing weird and that I should take him to urgent care to get a check up. My stbxw was keeping me posted previously stating our son was throwing up and had allergies but the breathing didn’t happen until she was leaving that night. So I had to take my son in and get all the medical stuff figured out and did my best to inform my ex while we were going through the process. She sent money to cover cost which is her responsibility and then the rest of the night she was unable to contact. Fast forward my son is well and we didn’t get home until around 1am. During the next couple days when I had the kids with me I would inform my stbxw because I thought she would like updates but she never engaged with the conversation regarding our sick son. All she said was “Ok thank you” to all of my updates regarding our son. He’s better now and the breathing machine was a lifesaver but the past couple days when talking about the kids she has literally kept all of her texts to one word or bare minimum. This I can handle. I noticed that when her AP is working she’ll text me and go off topic and I have to put an end to it. But when he’s not working her responses to me are short which is understandable because she’s with him. I only Text her if it has anything to do with the kids.

But tonight was hell. Tonight I dropped the kids off and when I approach the door she was barely wearing anything, face flustered, and was acting very nonchalant. The smell was also another giveaway and I was fuming. AP and her just banged one out before we got there and it overwhelmed me all over again with emotions. So I kept the interaction short and left. I just don’t get why things like this happen smh I think I ended up burying some feelings and didn’t process them which is why I’m acting like this? Stbxw is all over the place and literally still stresses me out just by seeing her during drop offs. But tonight she couldn’t at least have some decency when the kids were coming over. I apologize if I’m all over. Its been a hot minute lol thanks for reading my rant lol