I recently filed for divorce, but my wife has not been served yet. We've been married for nearly four years and have a three-year-old daughter. Three months ago, she told me she wanted a divorce but then changed her mind. However, the thought of divorce never left my mind, and things haven't improved since then. I've tried everything since our daughter was born: various therapists, self-help programs, and couples therapy, all initiated by me. We've even sought help from other couples. It feels bittersweet, and I know the uphill battle is about to begin.

We've been sleeping in separate rooms for over two years and have had sex fewer than ten times since we got married. We own a house together and did not have a prenup. I also own a business. I want 50/50 custody of our daughter and to sell the house. I hope the process goes as smoothly as possible, with minimal financial and emotional consequences.