Gentlemen, I am about to retain a lawyer and get my divorce finalized. It’s been comparatively amicable but we can’t settle on my military retirement, custody, and me paying for her lawyer. I’ve been very cooperative in supporting her until she is independent and it has put significant strain on me financially. I am having trouble finding this divorce. I don’t want to take a loan to pay the retainer. Aside from some retirement accounts and vehicles, there really isn’t anything to liquidate. Does anyone have a creative idea or resource that reduces the burden of acquiring a lawyer? Thanks.