Going through divorce. Wife was main income earner. Live in a VHCOL area. My quality of life is going to plummet, I’m willing to sacrifice but income level is going to make things extremely difficult.

Any of you guys pick up a second job as a result of divorce? Not sure how I can provide any type of life for our shared son.

I don’t want to turn electricity off, not run water etc to be able to put food on the table.