Right before we're supposed to go in for this upcoming case on visitation and how she's been violating the order, I'm starting to feel regret. . . Luke I shouldn't have stirred the pot, but I remember all those days she withheld my child, too. It's a lot to deal with. I obviously wish we weren't going through this nonsense and it could be cordial, but no. That, and now she's lawyered-up whereas I was the only one, initially.