Well...it’s official

Sectionz2 · 2019-07-28T00:21:23+00:00

Sorry dude, hang in there, things will get better.

My therapist said he’s never seen co-habitating last more than 6 months (I made it 9 and think it was one of the biggest mistakes of my life).

b757pilot · 2019-07-29T02:17:14+00:00

We have been in seperate bedrooms for about 3 weeks now. Plan is to wait till my 10 grader graduates. Sell house at that point and divorce. Arguments have been more pointed but that is due to me standing my ground on issues. I sure hope I can make it that long.

SpacemanLost · 2019-07-28T00:49:48+00:00

Can you afford to AirBnB, have a friend's couch to crash on, or something else to bridge the gap until you have your own place?

junglejon74 · 2019-07-28T05:31:22+00:00

I’m in a similar position. The wife told me 2 weeks ago she no longer loves me and wants a divorce. No counselling, she is just not interested in maintaining our relationship of 15 years (8 1/2 years married). We have an 8 year old boy who I’m trying to spend as much time with as possible. We are amicable at the moment but it is tough as she is constantly going out and leaving me home alone with my crazy thoughts and insecurities. The plan is I buy her out and we have talked money and access that we currently both agree on. I’m hoping it won’t change. I’m slowly coming to terms with the enormity of these events and day by day my feelings for her are slowly diminishing. My main concern now is my boy and the financial implications this is going to have. If she gets greedy (which worries me) and I can’t afford to buy her out the house will have to be sold and I will have to go and live with my parents (who are in their 70’s). I have a good job and earn 4x what she does. If the house is sold and I do return to my parents it will give me chance to save and hopefully find a place to buy over the coming year. I’m hanging in there but the legals are only just beginning so really don’t know what to expect in the coming months. I’m 44 and my STBXW is 39.

Title	Well...it’s official
Author	stumpjumper_steve
Upvotes	6
Comments	8
Date	July 27, 2019 11:50 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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