When do you call it

6-demon-bag808 · 2024-01-01T04:19:10+00:00

I'm gonna go with LeaveAlternative here. Do you have kids?

And the short answer? Unless she's hurting the kids you may have, never.

I'm not a religious man, I don't even believe in God. Suck it up and figure out what the basic problem is, tear it down to the most basic level. Never out of the fight brother.

MomentSpecialist2020 · 2023-12-30T15:49:34+00:00

Consult an experienced family law lawyer first so you can start arranging things in a way that smooths things out. Marriage counseling and a post nuptial agreement are options to sort of save things, if possible.

LeaveAlternative7167 · 2023-12-30T12:12:23+00:00

A VERY important question is - do you have kids. May not change the outcome but should 100 percent impact your approach.

pk2at · 2023-12-30T07:46:17+00:00

Always remember that any financial disclosure is de-facto voluntary. If you don't the difference between de-jure and de-facto, you need to do at least a year of research before starting your divorce

smitty537 · 2023-12-30T07:30:44+00:00

Just slip out the back, jack.

Make a new plan Stan.

You gotta be coy Roy

Just get yourself free.

You hop on the bus Gus.

You don't need to discuss much.

Just drop off the key ,Lee

And get yourself free.

GoldDigger304 · 2023-12-30T01:45:05+00:00

if you have been thinking about it for a year, its time to pull the trigger.

obvious divorce triggers are:

she is always causing drama and chaos
she is aggressive, bossy, combative and disagreeable
she is disrespectful and moans and complains about you to others
she is never happy
its always your fault. zero accountability. never says sorry.

start moving valuables (items and paperwork) to your parents.

contact divorce lawyers and interview them. start doing lots of divorce reading on the internet.

Title	When do you call it
Author	stripe609
Upvotes	7
Comments	10
Date	December 30, 2023 1:24 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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