Long story short, been married over 15 years, have 4 kids under 10 together. I’ve made mistakes and haven’t been a good husband over the last several years. I ended up moving out and have been living at my parents for a little over a year. I admit I didn’t try to fix things when I was moved out but have been making an effort recently. She says she can’t keep going back and forth with this and doesn’t have the energy to do this. She wants to be a good mom and expects me to support her in being able to do this but doesn’t want me to do this with her. Maybe I’m looking at this all wrong but isn’t that something a couple does? I truly want my marriage to work but I also want to be with someone who wants me as well. When do I call it quits and attempt to move on with my life. First thing I would do is to get my own place instead of staying in a room with my parents. I know this is all just a rant now but it damn sure feels good to get it off my chest. Thanks for reading this.